6 Needs of a Human part 3

Hey guys,

This is the last set of the 6 human needs,

before we continue lets recap real quick.

Ok so we have covered need 1 which is certainty, need 2 is uncertainty, need 3 is Significance and need 4 is Connection/love.

Now the following to needs are essential and most important 2.

Need 5 is Contribution - This simply put, means we MUST and NEED to give something to someone in order to feel complete. Contribution can mean anything from just a simple act of giving someone some love, or some time to giving money to charity or giving your time to greater community causes. That's what it mean's in that sense.

The reason is, because when we give to another person something from within us activates a resonating feeling of joy and happiness and makes us want to do more.

Need 6 is Growth - This can be summed up by saying. Growth in the sense of we all will grow up, our minds will develop and so will our bodies. Also growth in the mind by utilizing other peoples works and minds to help improve our own. Through books, CD's, Tapes, DVD's, youtube at times hehe.

The reason is because without growth we can not change what we are doing wrong. Learning new skills such as communication and leadership are essential. This is a growth process.
In my opinion Network marketers go through the highest level of growth simply because our field of work, almost 95% of it is personal development.

Best wishes,
Adil Amarsi
www.dcateaches.com

6 Needs of a Human part 2

Hey guys,

Here's needs 3 and 4 of the 6 human needs of a human.

Well I hope you read the first post because they all go together.

Okay so here we go.

Need 3 is - Significance.

We need to be significant, deep down, we all want to be important. We want our life to have meaning and significance. Another definition would be uniqueness, we want people to see why we are unique. Someways we can do this,
negatively is by bringing someone down or by being violent to someone.

These people use a negative profile now if you were using it in a positive manner you might be doing this by learning and knowing a subject then teaching it. Or get a degree in something and yes even spirituality is a form of significance.

Materialistic significance are things like cars, achievements, monetary achievements, etc.

Need 4 is- Connection/Love

WE all need to have a level of connection with someone, that way we feel loved, if not then were connected to God, but we are always wanting that connection. A destructive way of getting Connection or love is by;

• doing something for sympathy.
• Milking a situation for all its worth
• Being sick or injured so people look after you.
• Committing a crime or violent act.

Yes they are all connection, imagine Someone put a gun to your head they have just achieved needs 1-4. They are certain you will do what they say, they are uncertain what will happen next, they are significant to you, and they have a connection to you through the barrel of that gun.

But here are some positive connections and loving examples:

• Relationships
• Spirituality
• Friends and family
• Joining a team or club.

We will move on to the last two soon enough and remember the next to are also the most important of the 6.

Best wishes,

Adil

www.dcateaches.com

6 Needs of a Human

Hey guys,

Do you know the 6 Basic Human needs?

Well I am going to give you each one, 2 at a time and these are according to Anthony Robbins.

Before we begin I want to highlight there are 4 Classes of life and Experience.

1) This is where what you do Feels good, it's good for you, it's good for others around you and it serves the greater good.

This is the ultimate class of feeling that you know you love to be in.

2) Doesn't feel good but is good for you, it is good for others around you and it serves the greater good.
This is where some of us find ourselves at times.

3) Feels good, Not good for you or others around you, and doesn't serve the greater good.

Most of us are here.

4) Doesn't feel good, not good for you or others around you and doesn't serve the greater good.

This is a feeling we sometimes find ourselves in and hate it here.

Ok now fulfilling the 6 needs will help us stay in Class one!

Here we go.

Need one is: Certainty.

We need to be certain of things, we need to avoid pain and gain pleasure, that is the only reason we do things.

For us to be certain of something it gives us a sense of control, because of this we need to have faith that things will work out. It is easy to fret in times of uncertainty but we have to be certain what ever is happen is temporary.

Need #2 is: Uncertainty.

Yes it sounds Paradoxical but it works hand in hand with the first need.
Now you may think, "how do you figure that one?"

Well simple really, if you become certain of everything you become bored, complacent and sometimes sabotage what you have just to be uncertain.

Uncertainty can mean variety as well. There are some people who cheat on there other half because they have become certain of the other half's movment's.

Now how we balance these to out is by being Certain of things in our life but not getting used to it. Do something new daily as this provides room for us to grow.

The Road back home

As tempting as it may seem,

When things don't go your way you want to back out and go home when it gets "Dark". But you got to remember its always darkest before dawn.

So how do you overcome this feeling?

You start off by identifying why your not being the best you can be. Then devise a plan with your team to help you out. Stick to this plan, if your feeling low on energy start doing exercise and do it daily, you will find yourself going through the roof with energy.

Now avoid that road back, because, if you are leaning toward it, well your not gonna give 100% to go forward.

Don't stay still as you maybe pushed back, don't fall back as you will lose all you have, only push forward as it is your dreams and birthright that lay ahead.

Best wishes,

Adil

EVENT TIME!!!

Hey all,

Just a quick posting of up coming events in January and Feb.

Event: A community building event
Day: Tuesday 13th January 2009
Speaker: Adil Amarsi (me)
Location: African-Caribbean Centre, Leicester, just behind the train station.
Topics covered: Goals, Visualization, Leadership and Communication + workshop
What you can gain: A higher understanding on how you can achieve more as an individual and as a community.
Price: Free
Time: 10am - 4pm


Event: Lead yourself to success
Day: Sunday 18th January 2009
Speaker: Fahad Maniar and Team
Location: Leicester, Grandby Street, Coffee Republic.
Topics covered: Its a surprise ;)
What you can gain: A sound knowledge of what you want in your life and how to get it.
Price: £3
Time: 2:30pm - 4pm


Event: How to effectively set goals
Day: Tuesday 20th January 2009
Speaker: Kalpesh Patel (Yes he is awesome)
Location: Highbury hall, Birmingham, UK.
Topics covered: Goal setting.
What you can gain: A chance to meet one of the few inspired individuals who will show you how to raise your "Game" to the top.
Price: Free
Time: 6:30pm start


Event: Team Internet Marketing training
Day: Sunday 1st Febuary 2009
Speaker: The TEAM.
Location: TBC
Topics covered: Internet Marketing among others.
What you can gain: Meeting the Team and learning how to use the internet to weave your businesses together and autopilot
Price: TBC
Time: TBC


Event: TEAM EVENT
Day: Sunday 22nd Febuary 2009
Speaker: TBC
Location: TBC
Topics covered: TBC
What you can gain: A Wide range of knowledge of how you can be a better you. Like most events this is about value not just Rah Rah hype.
Price: TBC
Time: TBC

The Matrix

Hey guys,

I was watching the Matrix last night and I couldn't help but notice how true it was to life.
I know for a fact many network marketers, and just regular people know what I mean.

For those who don't know what I mean, The Matrix is a movie that says the entire world that we live in is a dream, a way to keep us enslaved and controlled.
The freed minds fight the various agents to free the minds of others to live in a free world that is, in the movie a war torn planet earth.

Now how this is true to life is, we are enslaved by the systems, This will be controversial but its ok because I want this to be a little controversial. We are enslaved by a system that teaches us to be dis-empowered and not completely empowered. We are born successful with a right to earn as much as we want, do all the good we want and have a lot of fun. But that isn't the case for many people because of "Circumstance". Well here's the thing a circumstance doesn't make anyone but really just reveals them to the world, meaning what ever is going in their inner world, well when the time comes everyone will see. If it's successful and happy, guess what its gonna be successful and happy, if its mean and abnoxious then thats what will come out.

The way to escape the system that we are born in to is to simply find those few individuals out there in the world who have done so, look for the entrepreneurs, network marketers, leaders, community leaders. Anyone who is doing something positive to change the world and still having a lot of friends and fun doing it.

When you find them just ask for help and it will be given, its so simple yet only 5% of people use it. If your looking for a way out of this system which has been told to us as the "rat race" then contact me or anyone you know who is "free" that you know.

Best wishes,

Adil

Being Consistent

Have you ever wondered what the top leaders do in your company?

There are many but today I will cover just the one that seems to be at the heart of them all.

Being consistent is one of the biggest keys I can ever share with you.

Did you know most of us will either start out great or get great during our career then we will disappear and then ask, "wheres our team?"

I know because I did this myself. BIG MISTAKE.

You want to be as consistent as possible but consistent with a direction, don't just go in charging, go in charging with a place you wanna go.

I mean its like the difference between traveling from one city to another with a map and without one.
I think the one with a map is easier, don't you?

Well you might think, "how do we stay consistent" or "How do we become consistent"
It's all about taking the first step and repeating it daily, time after time after time. Take one small step, start by speaking to two people you don't know daily, this really helps with confidence, just start by saying hello, don't speak business just regular everyday small talk.

Take care and keep going to the top.

Adil Amarsi

Live from the appleshop

Hey guys just a quick post i got a few prospects in the apple shop writing this blog its that easy!!!

Best wishes

Adil

What is Love?

What is love?

Some definitions now a days explain love as a compassionate bond between two people.

Others define love as a respect for another as you would respect and love yourself.

Some people don't even have an opinion of love.

I will assure you love is some of these but not a real definition of it, because when people think love they think about cute little things, pony's, perfection, happiness and no negativity what-so-ever.

Not saying this is bad, this is a good thing shows the person has a healthy outlook on love, but love isn't all rainbows and sunshine, its a combination of the good and the bad. The bad being things like, arguments, opposite points of view, anger, etc.

These things combined create love because, if you can imagine, even the best couple had times when they fought and got to the end. I am sure you have friends or know people who seemed PERFECT together but they broke up? One of them cheated or something came up, or after a short argument he/she left the other, etc,etc.

The reason for this is because our creator wanted nothing more then us to enjoy life but if something that we enjoy happens consistently we start to lose variety, which is one of our 6 human needs (will cover this in a later blog posting). So for us to experience challenge its just to make us stronger, to test us and to find out if we really love someone. The reason for sadness and pain is just to enhance the greatness of love. Without gravity our bones would not become strong, same is with love, without pain we can not be more loving then before.

In a nutshell, all love really is, is an emotion that dominates the universe and all pain is, is our teacher and examiner. Pass the exam and become one with unconditional love and you will notice how easily everything in your life flows.

Best wishes,

Adil

How to lose that xmas excess

Hey guys,

Did you know most people gain 5lbs of weight just over xmas???

Then you get the January joiners, join a gym then bang they never get past January.

Well I want to share with you a few easy ways of how to lose the fat, keep the muscle and feel great.

Step 1: Start eating less sugar, I need to do this myself but honestly less sugar means more vitality. I am not saying go on a very small amount of sugar, I mean go down a quarter or half the amount of sugar you consume usually.

Step 2: Go walking in the morning's. your doing two things here, 1, your creating an atmosphere of peace and its the perfect way to start a day and 2, your metabolism is started so you will burn off that fat.

Step 3: Create a food shift plan, instead of dieting just start simple by eating an apple instead of a chocolate bar or water over a soda or beer.

These are just 3 simple ways to save your body and get it back in shape. A little extra tip to those who want 6-pack abs, go running. Thats it go running and do sit ups.

Best wishes

Adil Amarsi

The Best Thing about being a Network Marketer

Hey all,

Before we go into what I think the best thing about being a network market is,
I have a question for you,

Would it satisfy your needs, if you were at home feeling ill but made £100/$200 worth of money?

I know what my answer is, so please leave yours in the comment box below.

Now one of the reasons I asked that question because I myself am feeling a little under the weather. Here's the thing though I do not want it to sound like I am complaining about it because even though I am not well I can still do my work from my bed, yes I am writing this blog while in my Pjs and with a box of tissues and a nice cup of lemsip lol!

Anyway one of the best things about being a network marketer for me is the ability to help others. Also getting paid for work you've done once, residual, so even if I'm sick as a puppy dog, I can still do a few hours of work just speaking to people. With this I can help my team leaders and I can help discover more team leaders.

What I want you to do right now on this very instant is click on this link here and sign up to receive your free goodies.

Then answer the question above.

Best wishes,

Adil

Become Selfish

Hey all,

Are you selfish?

If the answer is not yes then you have a problem.

Now your probably wondering, "What's this idiot babbling about??".
Let me explain myself, if you are NOT selfish then you need to start getting selfish.
I don't mean be mean, not sharing and just down right annoying.

Start caring for yourself first! IF your being hurt by someone you are serving, tell them you need to take some time off, serve you before others. "I" is always before "U" and this is very important.

When you become selfish to yourself, give yourself time to heal wounds, to move on from the past, to change your thought processes for life, you automatically gain a new standard of living so to say. You treat people better, you take responsibility for your actions and have lots of fun doing so.

You might wonder, "How can being selfish help me treat people better?"
Well permit me to answer with this analogy,
The scenario is your on an airplane with your child. Now even here the flight video tells you to be selfish, when??

When the video comes on saying, "In case of a sudden landing, please put your oxygen mask on first then your child's."

If you can take care of yourself then you can take care of others.

One of the biggest paradox's in life is this: "In order to help yourself, you must help others. BUT to help others, you must be able to help yourself."

(Paradox means, commercially, something that contradicts itself. But what it also means is something that seems contradictory but in actual fact it works hand in hand.)

In this case to help yourself is first but to see the change help another then help yourself again then help another. So you build on your strength to help.

BE SELFISH!!! but be grateful and help others.

Best wishes,

Adil

Welcome to 2009!!

Hey all,

Just a quick welcome to 2009!

Hope everyone had fun last night and you are all ready for the awesomeness of 2009!!!!!!

Have fun but this year take advantage of my offers hehe, there only gonna get better!

Please send me all your goals, in the form of 3 personal,financial and any other goals you wish to achieve. If you let me I will coach you to your success.

Best wishes,

Adil