6 Needs of a Human part 2

Hey guys,

Here's needs 3 and 4 of the 6 human needs of a human.

Well I hope you read the first post because they all go together.

Okay so here we go.

Need 3 is - Significance.

We need to be significant, deep down, we all want to be important. We want our life to have meaning and significance. Another definition would be uniqueness, we want people to see why we are unique. Someways we can do this,
negatively is by bringing someone down or by being violent to someone.

These people use a negative profile now if you were using it in a positive manner you might be doing this by learning and knowing a subject then teaching it. Or get a degree in something and yes even spirituality is a form of significance.

Materialistic significance are things like cars, achievements, monetary achievements, etc.

Need 4 is- Connection/Love

WE all need to have a level of connection with someone, that way we feel loved, if not then were connected to God, but we are always wanting that connection. A destructive way of getting Connection or love is by;

• doing something for sympathy.
• Milking a situation for all its worth
• Being sick or injured so people look after you.
• Committing a crime or violent act.

Yes they are all connection, imagine Someone put a gun to your head they have just achieved needs 1-4. They are certain you will do what they say, they are uncertain what will happen next, they are significant to you, and they have a connection to you through the barrel of that gun.

But here are some positive connections and loving examples:

• Relationships
• Spirituality
• Friends and family
• Joining a team or club.

We will move on to the last two soon enough and remember the next to are also the most important of the 6.

Best wishes,

Adil

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