What color is love?

Hey guys,

This is a bit of a relationships post. I got an email a couple of days ago from a really awesome guy by the name of Adam Lyons, who in many peoples opinions is one of the best dating coaches/guru's around.

Now he recently sent an email to people about his "dating science" website in which anyone can ask him a question, and watch as Adam and his team go out and get the results in real life.

So the second episode of Dating Science is entitled, "What Color is love?"
I didn't know this until Adam pointed this out in the video that a university tested to see which color men found most attractive, low and behold it was the color red.

But Adam, being the kind of guy he is, looks at one thing then tries to find every possible outcome (can anyone guess his personality color? :-) ) went out and decided to do a reverse test, what color do women find attractive on men....

Can you guess?

Well instead of me telling you, how about I let the man talk for himself.

Click here to get Adam's Answer!

Best wishes,

Adil

Back from London with some new stuff in mind

Hey guys,
I got back from London today,
and it was pretty awesome.
I came wondering about a few questions, and I want you to think about them as well....
They were:

• How forgiving am I?
• What more can I do to give more value?
• How many people can I help?

Now these where just 3 of the like 30 questions I had.....anyway.

The reason I asked the first question was because there was some healing I needed to do with a few relationships, so far I've done 2 out of the 4 healing's...which means that's 50% done, now some people have thought to ask me, "Why are you forgiving people that have wronged you or you've wronged them and got away, etc?"
Simply because on Friday 13th March 2009, I had an experience, one that I don't I'll forget, I woke up and my entire body felt like I had been stabbed, every inch....Now what I later concluded for myself, in a, "Whats happening and why fashion" rather then, "Oh crap"....My entire body was drained of energy so I had a choice of what to fill it with whatever energy I wanted.

Then before I went bed I spoke to Kalpesh Patel on Skype, just after I heard his call that I posted....so the post before this. Now he asked me to heal some relationships because it was obvious that was something that was stopping me from manifesting completely.
Turns out I had a few blocks from my past that have been getting in the way so I need to forgive them in order to move forward.

Yesterdays seminar thats one of the biggest messages I heard, like I said I did 2 outta the 4.

Anyway this is some of the stuff, click here to view some of the other stuff I learned, on video :).

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Click here to get my ebook for free :)

Rest, Relaxation, Rejuvination and Revolution

Hey all,

This is a simple and short topic really.
More of a statement really, you must learn how to relax, this little "simple" task took me years to find how to do. I managed it at last, the thing is when your tense, and always reacting and never letting your guard down, well you won't ever be able to succeed at anything. Let me elaborate the reason you won't succeed is because your mind is focusing the wrong way or place and thus your not allowing it to give you proper idea's.

Dr. Wayne Dyer once said, "Prayer is you speaking to God, so Intuition is God speaking to you",
This statement sums up really what I mean by relax, when you relax your mind and intuition works so much clearer.

I suggest relaxing 30 mins a day, all alone in a quite area, envisioning how you want life to be then just let your mind and body relax. Rejuvenate yourself by taking a walk in nature or working out or something to get your body moving again, all while confirming to yourself how much you love yourself, not conceit but healthy self-esteem.
E.G. "I love myself, everyone around me and They love me back" - that's self-esteem building.
Conceit is more towards, "Everybody loves me because I am so beautiful, hot, great in bed, etc" you fill in that negative blank and it's conceit.

Create a Revolution in the one place in the entire world where it matters most..... The state that is known as YOU!!!!!!! That is your revolution and take yourself to the next level do something you wouldn't do (POSITIVELY that is).

Have fun with this.

Best wishes,

Adil A

www.adil-amarsi.com

Effective Goal setting

Hey guys and gals,

I hope all of you had a terrific week and yes it is Monday but that doesn't mean its a bad thing, today is just the start of your week which means its another chance for you to go out there and live YOUR DREAMS!

I recently re read the book that I consider one of the best business books ever written, "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill,
You can get a free ebook copy from www.dcateaches.com
This book covers in more detail what we will be talking about which is effective goal setting.

Step 1:
Think of a goal you want to accomplish, could be money, a status, promotion anything you so desire to have.

Step 2:
We will use money as the example.
Take the amount you want, say £50 or $50 which ever you want. double it so its £100. This way you will to get the £100 and go beyond the £50.

Step 3:
Write it down in the positive as if it has already happened. E.G "I have £100 more then i did at the end of last month - 30th November 2008"
Date it because you have a deadline to work toward.

Step 4:
Place it somewhere were you can see it daily.

Step 5:
Read it Aloud twice a day but have emotion and feeling in your heart when you do, may I suggest that you read once in the morning and once before you sleep. This is because your mind is more susceptible to taking in the information in the first 20 mins of you awakening.

Step 6:
Write out a definitive action plan that you can use daily to help you achieve your goal.

Step 7:
Follow through with step 6 and practice daily.

Best Wishes,

Adil

Be polite and respectful

Being polite and respectful is not being a sissy and weak, its about feeling happy and important inside, tell yourself your important, treat others like there important, and you will get something back.

I had an experience recently, I thanked someone two weeks ago, and today, I had a CD that I had wanted sent to me for free from this person.

Now to make yourself feel important, dress appropriate, tell yourself you are important and so is everyone else. Show confidence in yourself, start feeling you can do things, if that's too hard for you then think of the pain of not doing it, but also think of the pleasure if you do go ahead and do it.

example: You see someone you like, your scared to walk up to them and say hello, whats the pain of not saying hello?

They don't notice you chance lost.

What's the pleasure?

They possibly are the person that your looking for, to date and be with.

For more on development visit

www.dca.successuniversity.com

How to prospect and a bit about my day

Hey guys, hope all of you are well.

Today I am going to cover how to prospect,

There are two things you NEED to know:

1) DO NOT judge people when approaching them about business

2) Be confident and genuinely care about a person.

The FIRST thing you MUST do is become a leader, this is quite possibly the main factor to being successful because being a leader, in anything, at home, work, a relationship or anything, being a leader makes you go further in life and is fulfilling. When your a good leader you'll notice others will follow you in a good way, if your a bad leader the same happens but they lead by wrong example.

Get over the fear of speaking to people because they won't bite, i hope not hehe.

My day was well i found some people to speak to and i will be getting to know them more so :)

I'll update the blog on the weekend.

All The Best,

The Coach

Introductions : The first post

Well let me first introduce myself. My names Adil and I want to personally congratulate you on first; looking at this blog and second; reading it :).

The reason I want to write this blog is so I can achieve my vision.

My vision is:

To help as many people become successful in life in WHICH ever field they wish to achieve success in, either it be, at work, at home, relationships, becoming financially free, ANYTHING it's all up to you.

This is just step one, if you are interested check back here every other day for a new post, I shall share how my day goes and things i know on success.

Until Wednesday
Take care
All the best :)