Become Selfish

Hey all,

Are you selfish?

If the answer is not yes then you have a problem.

Now your probably wondering, "What's this idiot babbling about??".
Let me explain myself, if you are NOT selfish then you need to start getting selfish.
I don't mean be mean, not sharing and just down right annoying.

Start caring for yourself first! IF your being hurt by someone you are serving, tell them you need to take some time off, serve you before others. "I" is always before "U" and this is very important.

When you become selfish to yourself, give yourself time to heal wounds, to move on from the past, to change your thought processes for life, you automatically gain a new standard of living so to say. You treat people better, you take responsibility for your actions and have lots of fun doing so.

You might wonder, "How can being selfish help me treat people better?"
Well permit me to answer with this analogy,
The scenario is your on an airplane with your child. Now even here the flight video tells you to be selfish, when??

When the video comes on saying, "In case of a sudden landing, please put your oxygen mask on first then your child's."

If you can take care of yourself then you can take care of others.

One of the biggest paradox's in life is this: "In order to help yourself, you must help others. BUT to help others, you must be able to help yourself."

(Paradox means, commercially, something that contradicts itself. But what it also means is something that seems contradictory but in actual fact it works hand in hand.)

In this case to help yourself is first but to see the change help another then help yourself again then help another. So you build on your strength to help.

BE SELFISH!!! but be grateful and help others.

Best wishes,

Adil