Self-help & Personal Development

BIG announcement

2009-08-17T17:20:00.002+01:00

Hey guys and gals,

I have a big announcement to make...

I LAUNCHED A NEW SITE TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Right now AdilAmarsi.com is live and running. I am getting good steady amounts of people opting in and it is awesome!!!!

I am doing a free weekly newsletter that has exclusive information from the experts in EVERY field possible,
Self-help
Internet marketing
Relationships
raising kids happy and healthy
and so much more.

Make sure you come on round to the new site and get all the awesome content!

Click here to visit and join us!

P.S. This is were I will be completely unearthed and you will see my every day sorta life and the lessons I learn :).

Adil

The tale of two fears....

2009-08-14T11:45:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Just a quick post because I have been super busy preparing the new site, I am gonna include every type of thing I can on there so you guys can have a real frontal view of my life....

Okay so the tale of two fears...

As we know fear is seen as a bad thing,

but what if I was to tell you it wasn't.

You see we are all born with only 2 fears the others are learned the 2 fears are, fear of falling and the fear of loud noises. The other fears are all learned and not really real.

You remember the age old saying, FEAR is.

False

Evidence

Appearing

Real

So this should mean you shouldn't really fear anything but in a fear based society it's kinda difficult.

Okay so this Tale of two fears is something I learned from a movie that was the worst ending for a Saga but the ending was redone, thankfully, that's right, rocky 5.

Rocky is speaking to Tommy Gunn and asks him,

"Yo Tommy, who's ya best friend?"

Tommy tries to say it's some guy in Oklahoma, where he's from.

Rocky replies, "No it's not your best friend is Fr

eddie Fear... You see when you fight you got fear in you, that fear can do 2 things to you, either show your burning desire or burn you up."

Now I added something else here.

Your fear will do 1 of 2 things to you, either it will set you on fire with passion and desire and have the world come see you burn your passion, or it will kill you slowly inside until you burnout and burn up.

I hope you guys embrace your fear because what you scared of most is usually the path you are meant to go down.

Later Days!

Adil.

P.S. I will send you links to the new site soon :)

Time to learn from Millionaire Business People!

2009-08-13T18:24:00.003+01:00

Hey all I got this email from Jeff Mills. Pretty awesome

"Hey Adil,

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Listening....Why is it important..

2009-08-07T15:11:00.002+01:00

Hey all,

Glad you liked the last post.

This is a post that a good friend of mine named Jill gave me an idea to write about...

Listening, and why it is important.

This is a subject that took me a while to learn because I am a natural blue, I don't think my words through they just come out. So it took me a while to listen, now I am not a great listener by my own standards but I am improving so yay there.

Okay so why is listening important?

Before we get into it let's discuss what listening is.
Listening is a skill that is not taught and if it is taught its taught very daftly.

I remember being taught this skill....Not the most fun I've had because all that kept happening was me being told, "dude shut up and listen"....
Now how on earth is that any fun to anyone??????

Okay so listening is taking in information through the ears, hearing the message, clarifying said message, relaying a response to this message or adding to it, which in turn leads into good conversation.

So why is this important?

Besides the VERY obviousness that listening = friendship, knowledge and lovingness from everyone.

It is good for relationships, business, etc.

Honestly speaking I have completely missed it clearly when a girl is telling me she likes me. She could be hinting this and because I wasn't able to listen had to just go by gut instinct. This is not a fun way to go because your Ego will start telling you not to because it thinks she is going to kill you.

Anyway it works in business as well because your business prospect could be telling you what there need is or there pain, by understanding this you can then go out and help them create a product that could help other people like them.

I know I haven't taught the "how to listen" part in this blog and that is because I honestly don't know how I learned, I just studied being quiet, not jumping from my first thought, hearing the person, processing what they said and making an answer, rather then waiting for them to stop talking so I could start.

Hope this helps and have fun listening,

Later days!

Adil

Afformations - No not a typo

2009-08-06T13:25:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

In my last post I told you guys about something called Afformations. Now like I promised here's what an afformation is and how to get it to work for you. But before we begin permit me to remind you what an Affirmation is: Something declared to be true, a positive or negative statement or judgment. But we like to keep it a strictly positive experience. So no, "I suck" more like, "Yay I am feeling awesome!"

Afformations is about questioning yourself rather then affirming.

E.G. "I am a millionaire" (affirmation)
To
"Why do I have x amount of millions in my account?" (afformation)

So this is pretty powerful because if you have ever heard of this statement before, you will know why:
Statement: "The Quality of Questions determine the Quality of your Life".

If you ask a powerful question such as,

Why am I a millionaire?
Why am I beautiful?
How did I achieve Financial freedom?
Why am I so energetic?
Why do I have so much fun?

No matter what you ask, positive or negative your brain will give you an answer.
If its,
"Hey Why do I suck so much?" or "Why can't I do nothing right?"

Your brain will answer,

"Because you suck."
"You have no skill's here"
etc.

So use Afformations if you a stubborn person like I am and start seeing things happen.

By the way just for you marketing people who want help online and stuff.
Tellman Knudson is giving you a $4000 free course at the moment.
click here to get it

Right I'll speak to you soon,

Later days!

Adil

Cancel CANCEL!

2009-08-05T14:14:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Thanks to those who responded, my friend George is happy about the help you guys gave :).

Just gotta use all I learned and condense it down for him.

Anyway here's today's awesomely awesome post.....

Okay I was listening to the Silva Life System's course and I have only began it because it seems cool. There was one technique that was really cool, it's called, "Canceling".
Probably isn't called that but I call it that :).

so what is this technique?

It pretty much helps you out with helping to program yourself for successful habits.
When ever you feel a negative thought come into your head or a negative question or statement, just say "Cancel cancel", then replace it with something, either an incantation, an affirmation or an afformation (will blog about this soon promise!).

Example would be,

"You really can't make money can you, you know why? Cos you SUCK!"

"CANCEL CANCEL! [this is an incantation btw] Everyday and EVERYWAY I am getting healthier, wealthier and happier." Thing is with incantations you just don't say them, you act them out, meaning you gotta start walking and say this, you have to have a smile on your face, you have to act a little silly to make yourself smile. JUST GO FOR IT!

Will be back with more,

Later Days,

Adil

A few new updates....

2009-08-04T17:55:00.002+01:00

Hey all,

I have some good news and some "in need of help" news.

First and foremost, I have a new blog up soon. I will send all of you lovely lovely people invites and you can join my monthly newsletter which is pretty much a magazine of sorts with lots of information covering many area's.

Okay next up is this help i need for you all.

My buddy, whom will remain anonymous for obvious reasons, is going through a hard time in there life. Besides the few friends who support them in there ventures and there aspirations, those who don't have now started really tearing them down, as in its pretty painful to watch. They too, like myself, live at home for the moment, there mother had supported them throughout but has recently became really irritable, I know I met her and she isn't the nice lady she once was and the stuff seems to bother her and takes it out on my friend.

Now The advice needed here, because as much as I try to help them, they seem to be stuck in this loop of fighting for there dreams and being told there worthless by there family members, yes all of them, yeah I know it sucks. Could you guys help out?

Thanks again, please write your comments or just email me personally.

Best wishes,

Adil

Authenticate it Damn It!

2009-08-01T11:46:00.003+01:00

Hey guys,

I watched a cool video the other night, now I went back and checked it out and my comment was moved from number 30 to 31....This isn't relevant but its messed up my awesomely funny weird moment. I posted it and I got number 30, on July 30th 2009 and my goal was deadlined for my birthday, September 30th....freaky huh. Get's crazier cos the time was 11:18:47 pm so 13 more seconds then 3 30s woop.

Okay on to the chocolaty goodness and if you can't have chocolate think of pizza and if you don't like pizza, you are just alien to me =)

On this awesomely awesome video I watched 2nights ago. My buddy and a guy I formerly interviewed, Mr. Bruce Muzik, has recently moved to his beach house in the Caribbean. He shared how he did it.

And it comes down to this...and you can use my blog as a breeding ground for this....

Make an Authenticated promise to everyone. Really get specific. Like tell the whole world what your promise is, when you want it by, this way it creates social pressure and bam you have to do it or face losing face with people....

Then all you have to do is make sure you lay out how you wanna do it, find the first "domino" to knock over so the others fall in place to make the mosaic that is your life.

Best wishes,

Adil.

P.S. Everyone of you that bought the 11 forgotten laws, Rocks and I hope you enjoyed my extra bonuses.

P.P.S. If you have no clue what the hell i am on about, check out this post, by clicking here

The 11 forgotten laws....

2009-07-30T13:58:00.002+01:00

Hey Party people,

How are you all today?

Okay this is gonna be a very odd blog because I can't explain these laws yet but I know what they are, if that makes sense?

Before we begin I will tell you it was Bob Proctor who made this program and I will include a link to the site, should you wish to buy but there is something even cooler which you will see in the P.S. Of this post.

Okay so lets begin the 11 laws.

1) Law of Thinking

2) Law of Supply

3) Law of Attraction

4) Law of Recieving

5) Law of Increase

6) Law of Compensation

7) Law of Non resistance

8) Law of Forgiveness

9) Law of Sarcrifice

10) Law of Obedience

11) Law of Success

I'm going through this program as we speak and I'm only on Law number 1, I'm trying out a new strategy, listen to one CD so much that it drives me nuts or I know it well enough.... Good plan yay(!) :).

Anyway from the guy who recommended this to me, sorry I forgot how to spell your name, and you won't let me nickname you....

He has started applying these laws, and he's been getting some kick ass results.

I know this is like a really none cool post but I promise once I learn more of the laws I will write them up for you in an awesome way :).

The course is found here:

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Best wishes,

Adil

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Bonus #3: Silva's centering exercise... This I've done through the Silva life systems course, it's pretty awesome, puts your mind at an "Alpha" wave state and makes you feel super peaceful.

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Those are the bonuses you get but to increase the bonuses

I've prepared a super bonuses just for you guys reading this.

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Later Days

The distance between success and Failure!

2009-07-29T20:26:00.002+01:00

Hey guys

I was watching a random Tony Robbins video on youtube, because he is someone who is like MEGA awesome...

Anyway this is during a time while I feel super uncertain about things because I just feel really burntout. Now here's what Tony said,

"It takes an Millimeter to change everything. If you hit a golf ball a millimeter to the side it either lands in the sand dune, the water or the green, because it doesn't look like much but it arcs."

So remember if you feel like your at a loss of certainty, shift 1 millimeter and see how it feels.

Best wishes,

Adil

"Arrogance is putting people around you down to make yourself feel and look good, this never lasts long, but Confidence is bringing up those around you by making them look good and its reciprocated and lasts forever" - Adil A. Amarsi

Emersion

2009-07-29T09:22:00.003+01:00

Hey guys,

I got an insane story for you guys.

As many of you know I took up studying, in super super super deep depths how the mind of people works and so on and so forth. Now I know one of the best ways to get a good influence on people to educate them is based on emersion, this just means me, you and a few other people all doing the same activity together so it becomes stronger to you.

Now this is the weird thing I noticed recently, for those who have an Xbox 360 or PC version of this game or who have kids who have this game I got totally emersed in it. The game is called "Gears of War". How I got so emersed in it is scary because at one point, after reading a bit of the Gears novel, I started feeling like how some of the characters would feel.

Such as Marcus Fenix (pictured)

He is the game's main character and so on. Anyway his story develops through the first game making the player very curious about him.

The game, btw, is based in an alternate world named Sera, which is like Earth but destroyed because of greed and wars.

Marcus is known in the game as a war hero who is in Prison for abandoning his post to try to save his dad, etc.

Anyway the next Character is Domanic Santiago, life long friend of Marcus Fenix and a guy who is looking for his wife.

Ths is where the emersion begins, ESPECIALLY in gears of war 2. From the get go you are thrown in like you yourself are a Gear.

I think its like act 3 (mission 3) of the first chapter. And you get this cut scene....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0Vh0Qvbm0Y

After watching this cut scene you feel emersed to just play the game....

I questioned why this was happening and the answer was emersion. Not only did the game make things enjoyable and a way to vent out some level of stress. You have this combination of melding that feeling into your psychology, which is really brilliant because it's seldom happens in games, usually movies or books. The main aim of this, and I am not sure they even knew this effect, was to get you to love the game and merchandise such as hats, bags, beanies, lighters, etc....

It works because on a random guess they've probably shipped millions of dollars in merchandise away from the game alone. Not to mention the fact anytime this game launches, "Gears 1 and Gears 2", The local game shops always have a midnight launch, which I might add nearly sells the entire stock in that time. In some cases, as with Leicester Gamestation, they sold out of there stock of Call of Duty 4 (I only know this because I was there), about 12 times within the first 5 weeks of the game being released..... What's scary is we moved more products of this then any other store.... now back to the lesson...

If you want people to be nicer, more attracted, or just for to be the life of a party, emerse everyone in "your world", get them to see how great it is.

Sorry this post is so everywhere, I've yet to sleep... but please study the video and send me your response in the comments section.

Thanks

Have an awesomely awesome day,

Later days,

Adil

How to keep an audience focused and alert...

2009-07-28T22:47:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

This is just something I thought to write about because I went to a recent seminar and it was my first time ever I saw a few people fall asleep, others fidget and some just not care for what the speaker was saying. Which is stupid because this guy had good content. THOUGH admittedly I did feel a little bit bored.

So I thought to do this blog on how to keep an audience going on your message and have them alert, captivated and ready to love you!

Okay so straight in to one of the best ways I know to keep an audiences attention.

Is have them do something with you, like Tony Robbins has the yes clap. And Jerry Clark has the go clap.
Some other people just get everyone to stretch out. My friend, Kalpesh Patel ALWAYS had us give the people near us a massage, this woke us all up and made us laugh. My other friend Mark Anastasi had us (the crowd) repeat powerful affirmations such as, "I'm a millionaire". This is excellent because it creates high energy.

A few other things that work are ask questions, change the volume of your voice, coming out of that monotone and get into something more fun. Tell a few jokes, walk into the crowd and ask questions.

A few people whom I know who do this so well are Jennie Armato, Sean Roach, Russell Brand and a few other entertainers/speakers. If you do this it builds such a quick bond because your not so away from them your joining in, you're asking them questions, and getting to know them.

When you give value in a fun manner, it is kept better in the minds of people and the crowd will start accociating you with the word fun, which is what you want because when you are fun and have what they want that equals to you having constant customers and a lot more friends.

Hope this helps.

Best wishes,

Adil

An amazing experience....

2009-07-27T21:10:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Hope you all had an amazing weekend.

First and foremost thank you to the people who emailed in, Louise Champion and Prabs thank you both for the long questions, I will answer them all asap :), promise.

Okay so I had yet another amazing experience.

To share something personal and in no way shape or form do I want any of you reading this to feel bad for me or something =D. But my doctor told me I might have so much stress it's messing up my sleep, so you stressy people PAY SUPER ATTENTION HERE!

So the amazing experience was while I was feeling low, tired, bored, which all by the way lead to the dark side...known as depression. Though these are miles away from depression following that path eventually leads you there.

Here's what I had happen to me, without realizing it, I started sitting in my "power and confident" posture, and started to breathe if everything was okay. And bam like a bolt of lightening I'm back to being the energetic maniac :).

This is based on something I learned from Tony Robbins a year ago but never actually applied because I hadn't had to. So it helped now so yay.

To get into your power and confidence posture do the following:

1) Close your eyes and visualize yourself in your peak condition, when you feel great, full of life, power, joy and confidence. You're doing what you do best at the best level possible.

2) Breathe DEEP for 20 seconds. Hold in for 6 seconds, release SLOWLY until you are back to normal and repeat (Thank you Craig Goldblatt)

3) Get up and move, have a shower, work out, but get moving, when you move your body starts to sense your doing well and pumps more endorphin around your body.

Have an awesomely awesome day!

Adil

p.s. Are you guys still not following me on twitter?
Click here to follow woo XD

I wanna hear from you....

2009-07-25T09:00:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Just a quick post, because its 9:04 am and I have just finished up some work so I am relaxing, so I thought to post.

Okay here's the deal,

I want you guys to help me out by telling me exactly what you want me to blog about....No I'm serious. Not to say I know everything but If you have something you want me to blog about tell me, and I will either blog about it, or send a message to you telling you, "I have no idea what this subject is about and will blog on it later."

Anyway Let me know.

Later days,

Adil

P.S. Thank you Adam for your awesome advice on more ways to increase weight....Hard Gainers ROCK!

Okay I'm a bit peeved!

2009-07-24T19:09:00.002+01:00

Guys this is a quick blog,

I don't feel like writing much because I am peeved at my internet provider for NOT telling me the first 10 days = SLOW, UNRELIABLE CONNECTION!

Thank you BT!

Which means No video because It won't upload so I decided to write it out....yay :).... I am going to leave you with a bit of a story of my random personal journey to regain my athleticism and build more muscle....

As a few already know I class under the category of, "HARD GAINER" which means no matter what I do I can hardly put on weight.

So I went on good ol' google in search of an answer that would best help me out. I found a site, by the way this was 2 days or so ago.... Bought the product and started immediately.

Here's my review after just 2 or so days....

The product is good, it's helped me build a bit more muscle, and you can see it, I checked my weight, its at a good level and I feel slightly more energetic. I recommend this to anyone who is up for weight loss and muscle gain, and just to feel great.

Links are at the bottom of this post.

Comment please :)

Adil!

Link for super awesome muscle thing!
CLICK ME =D

The 3 big Secrets to getting what you want in life and people

2009-07-23T23:06:00.000+01:00

Yes It's a bit of a wordy title I know, but it is the lessons I have learned in dealing with life and dealing with people.

Anyway let's begin.

1) In order to have you must be.

This is one I learned from Matt Morris who is the founder, president and CEO of Success University. Pretty much what he taught me through his CD was this secret.

People often think in order to be something you must have something. IF you want to be happy, you have to have something for it, E.g. A new car, nice house, lots of money, etc.

Or if you want to be a millionaire, you have to do all these things and then you will be one.

THE TRUTH!

Is that you must BE before you have.

"What do you mean, Adil?"

Simply put, if you want to be a millionaire, first think like a millionaire, if you want to have this soul mate, think of already knowing and being with them, etc.

Everything that happens in life is a reaction to what your inner world is. Remember wealth doesn't happen to you, but you happen to wealth. Meaning your thoughts and inner dialogue creates your world.

2) Take complete Responsibility

This is one that is hardly spoke about or taught else where.
Taking 100% responsibility for EVERYTHING. Meaning if you just got laid off or fired or downsized, its not the company's fault, it's yours, because you chose to work there, you didn't upgrade your skill set, etc.

This sounds negative but it really isn't, when you take control of responsibility, your ability to respond, you will see you can control your life much easier.

This isn't an easy thing to do. Trust me. it takes a lot of self-discipline to do. Another example to this is when you break up with someone, take responsibility, if you argue, take responsibility.

REMEMBER your view, is just your view, take responsibility of it, if the other person doesn't take responsibility for there actions, you shouldn't take there's to. Just respond with an apology and leave it at that, the other person will soon be okay with you.

In work or lifestyle, take responsibility that you being in debt, or not where you are. IS the price you paid for being lazy and un-responsible. I am not telling you to blame yourself, just take responsibility in an empowering manner, I am guilty of not taking responsibility but I learn and so does everyone else.

3) Be fun

I know I have gone on about this before but this is from every area of life.

If you are the fun person, people will gravitate toward you. Really imagine this one, who would you rather hang out with, the fun person or the dull one?

Yeah its usually the fun person you would want to hang out with.

I know this secret isn't explained completely, because it is pretty obvious :).

Anyway guys, I know I said I would do a video as well, but my computer is being odd. So the video will be up soon.

For those who know, I am doing my health challenge, started this morning, I did 30 push ups, 30 sit ups and 30 squats, I did a mile long power walk. This afternoon me and a friend walked about 5 or so miles, was pretty awesome.

Speak to you tomorrow!

Adil

That "Ah Ha" Moment!

2009-07-22T23:51:00.001+01:00

Alright, instead of giving the 3 big secrets I said I would, I wanted to post this first, I will give the 3 big secrets away tomorrow, sorry about this but this was a teeny bit more in my head.

This is a short post.

Okay so as the title states, we have all had this special "Ah Ha!" Moment!

But what if I was to tell you, you could have these moments more often in your own life?

You can create them yourself, well in a way you already do but I mean more on purpose and more meaningful ones. Rather then ones where it's every so often or seen as coincidence?
Would you like to?

I would imagine so, because those moments are awesome!

What inspired me to write this over the 3 secrets to getting practically everything in life was simply I had this experience.

For those that do or don't know I am a Tony Robbins student, I think he is amazing and has a big heart and is full of energy and passion. I did his personal power 7 day course on September 23rd 2008, A week before my birthday. I never looked at it again until yesterday, 21st July 2009 (Holy crap can you believe it?). Anyway I looked at it and read some of the goals I placed in, Now some of the immediate 1 year goals did seem a bit far off, I do feel close to achieving them but the "Ah Ha" moment I got was when I looked at a 3 year goal I have, now at the time I had no idea how I would achieve it, but over the course of the last few months I have acquired the skill set to achieve that goal.

So how do you get "Ah Ha" moments all the time and make them intentional?

Simple really. I have wrote about it before but here goes again in a condensed version... with some added steps.

1) Get a sheet of paper, on it write out the letter "A".
On the sheet write about how your lifestyle is, list everything about how things aren't going your way, etc. Finances, relationships, the whole sha-bang....

Now that sounds negative but it is positive.

2) Get another sheet of paper and write how you want your life to be like, in the positive as if it has happened, and do it in a sense of you go into COMPLETE detail of your perfect, average, every day life. So it should be based on what you want this day to bring to you in terms of experience.

Don't write out your life script but like a diary of your day, your perfect average day...meaning you would do this daily.

3) Write out goals. But this time, put how long you want, is it doable within a year, how about 3, or is it 5, maybe 10 or even 20 yrs. Write it out. Then prioritize them, and make a plan from it.

Now you have wrote these down, even if you don't look at them, you will start moving toward them.

But it is best to look at them.

Best wishes,

Adil!

By the way, tomorrow, on facebook I will ask you all who read this to actually come to my blog.
http://www.adilsrants.blogspot.com
To check out a video I am putting up :).

How to be the center of attention.... Part 4!

2009-07-19T19:02:00.003+01:00

Rightyo!

Today's blog is going to be a little like a Philly cheese steak with the extra's, it's gonna have a little bit of everything on it... Have I ever had a Philly Cheese Steak, well no but I like the saying.

Today I am going to give you some really great info, followed up with a request and finally a big happy smiling portion of a preview of my next post titled, "3 Big Secrets to getting anything you want from life and people." Well okay I couldn't remember the title i had in mind, all I remember it was good content lol.

Okay so onto the last 2 of the 6 ways of being the center of attention.

Let's recap, shall we :-)

Okay so we have covered:

Reducing Your Social Anxiety
Being Self Amused
Smiling
Being interested and interesting

And today we will cover, giving them more value then they had before you joined them and when leaving say goodbye to all and hug them.

So why is giving more value to people important, how does this help you, and what long term benefits come from this?

Well let's have a look at it this way, if the group is having a boring, droll and not so fun conversation, and you enter with this value of giving fun, interesting topics of empowering them and yourself, you have given value.

Now the person who gives value to others is usually seen as the one with highest value, so the people's attention is turned to you. This plays well when you give interest in other people and follow up with interesting topics of conversation (See this is the mashing up of all 6 points here :P)....

How does being seen as the person with highest value help you?

Truly amazingly because when you give value, and people see you as a high value person, they have an instant natural urge to like you, so this helps in you being able to get the information you want later to keep in touch.

Imagine for a moment, two separate scenario's.

Scenario 1: A person you don't know just enters your group/A friend of a friend enters your group discussion. They make everyone laugh and gives everyone a value of making themselves feel great. At the end of the interaction, they turn to you and say,
"hey it was loads of fun, can I take down your number or something so we can keep in touch and do this again?" With a big warm friendly smile on there face..

Scenario 2: Similar situation with the difference of this person is giving no value, has really bad posture, is interrupting someone who is speaking, trying to change the subject and all out being rude. At the end they ask you for your information, with a sort of glum look on there face.

Who are you going to give your information to?

Exactly it's usually scenario person 1.
The reason is because he gave value, and VALUE BUILDS COMFORT AND RAPPORT!

A great long term benefit of giving great value, is you become known as a person who can help people in a particular thing, plus because you were so friendly and fun, people with your details will usually send you messages asking you to come out.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE: Before I got good at meeting people and interacting like it was second nature (I found out later on it was second nature).... I used to be really quiet, and not be able to interact and at age 14+ your focus is mostly on girls, if your a guy... So when I went out with my best friend at the time, DJ and we used to meet all his friends etc, now I had some okay conversations with them, etc.
Wanna guess how many people called me out to hang out with them being the timid guy out the group? Yeah that's right only my friends that truly knew me.

Fast forward to today, without sounding like I am bragging, after understand the rules of how to be the center of attention in a positive way, I now meet people through my friends or randomly and within a few moments, I have made friends with them and they have shared there information with me. I.E. Email addresses/phone numbers, etc.

Now because of giving value, I get phone calls from these people, sometimes before even the friend who introduced us, to meet up. There's also a business aspect of things, you could make connections through business conventions where you meet people whom you might have a product for.

Okay on to the last one today....

When leaving a person or a group give them a hug.

Now there is an importance to why you want to hug, and that is building more comfort with the person. A hug represents being close to someone and is seen as you liking them and them hugging back usually represents them liking you back. This is liking in the sense of they trust you enough for you to touch them.

Again back to the 2 scenario's. Who would you hug, the person who is happy sociable, fun and gives value. Or the person who isn't got much happening?

It's always best to leave with a hug because this also leaves the person with a good last impression of you. People say first impressions are very important, they are. But they seldom talk about the last impression. If you leave a great last impression as well as an okay - great first impression then you have a winning combo to make sure this person, when they share there details with you, is very likely to meet up with you.

Best wishes,

Adil

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How to be the center of attention.... Part 3!

2009-07-15T17:38:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Okay so far we have covered both:

How to reduce social anxiety AND self-amusement.

Today we're going to be going through the next two points on this post!

Okay so to just to recap the next two are....

Smiling - why its important and how to find your smile....

Be Interesting and Interested - How to be interested and interesting simultaneously and why it's important, etc.

You guys get the gist. Alright so lets get stuck in!

Smiling....

So why is smiling important?

Simple really, because it means, YOU ARE FRIENDLY and not a danger to the person you are speaking to. It also makes you feel great, makes you feel more social as well.

In terms of body language, smiling is perceived as a universal sign of hope, happiness, joy and fun. And if you smile at someone it is usually hard for them not to smile back, unless you caused them some grief or something.

Anyway the way smiling works in your favor in a "Center of attention" moment, is that when you are speaking, if you have this big ol' smile on your face, it is going to be very hard for people not to like you.

Remember about 92% of all communication is non-verbal but is based on body language dominantly followed by vocal tone. So using the smiling tip, you tend to have people just become attracted to this conversation, because as humans we tend to mimic the happiest. So if you smile and are genuinely making people laugh and giggle while adding value, other people will gravitate toward you.

So how do we get our "killer" smile?

Well a little known face about smiling is that it only takes 17 muscles to smile and about 37 to frown. So smile!

You might say, as I did once, "I can't smile I look really bad!"

Well you can change that using a tip I picked up. There are many ways, one of which is pretty rude but it works like a charm, if you want to know what this tip is email me and i will send it you confidentially so I avoid being in trouble.

Okay so here's how you smile greatly,

1) Smile with your eyes. - By using this and smiling so happily, people will say you "light up" and also when smiling with your eyes, its more real and makes you look great as well.

2) Smile with your mouth completely wide and happy. - Don't care what people say, just let that smile go.

Want to know a DIRTY DIRTY SECRET? NO ONE CARES what you actually look like when you smile or if you shower or don't, if you comb your hair or style it. No one actually really overly cares.

Reason is people generally are to self-centered to notice you being out of place.

Now some people say, "I'd rather be interested then interesting because people will like me more".... Let me clear this up for you, this only works 50% of the time which is good but here's the thing, if you are in a group trying to be the center of attention in a good way, here's what you want to do.

Say something interesting, and then be interested to hear people's responses. It's important because if you are just interesting people will look upon you as a, "Know it all" or "A pain in the butt who won't shut up."

Personally I do get told I talk to much, which is true because I am a predominant blue personality type, if you don't know what I mean check through my blog and search "Blue personality type".... Anyway, though I have been known and told I talk to much I have yet to receive a, "You're so irritating when you talk" comment. This is because I have made sure when I speak I am interested in the person and they are interested in me, so when I say something interesting they tend to listen and give there opinions and feedback.

This blends perfectly with self-amusement because when you can be self-amused. you will automatically say something off the cuff and have people respond, usually if you have rapport, which you would have, that's why your in the group. They will respond positively and just smile with you and just follow on.

Okay so I will be back in a few days with another new update on the final 2 parts :). then the big 3 secrets.

Adil

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How to be the center of attention.... Part 2!

2009-07-09T18:04:00.000+01:00

Hey all!

First of all, sorry for taking too much time to post this, I've been REALLY busy and have become somewhat of a hermit.... :).

Also thank you to the people who emailed me asking for help, you know who you are. I love it when people ask because it gives me a sense of contribution and its a form of feedback, also thank you for those that commented on my facebook note :).

Okay so lets jump straight into the 2nd way of being the center of attention without being a needy, pain in the butt, small ego'd person....

So we covered Reducing Social Anxiety and now we are moving on to Self-amusement.

Now just a quick note this is just in number form, in reality all these things we are speaking about mash up together.

Okay so straight into number 2) Self Amusement.

So how does being self amused make you the center of attention?
Well if you are there being self amused you naturally draw attention to yourself and this is where confidence comes in. I have been in this position and see other people in the same place, you start doing something you enjoy, others look, without expressing there opinions you take it that they are silently judging you so you stop. Where as in reality I have found people actually enjoy it.

Now it is no secret I can not sing to save my life. But I still go out and I sing something stupidly weird like, "Zero to Hero" from the Disney Hercules movie. I have people look at me and if they've seen it, I ask them to join in and they do. This is down to the expectation of a positive outcome.

At the end of the 6 stages I will reveal to you thee most powerful source there is to being the center of attention and having what you want from it.

So to continue on self amusement. People generally find those who have low social anxiety and self amusement as people they want to be and follow. Or even be around because when you have low S.A. and high levels of self-belief and amusement you let your natural charisma take control and that makes people want to be around you even more.

In all fairness I didn't come up with this thought, I learned it from a guy by the name of Jon and he is a dating master Consultant. This guy is awesome, anyway he said that being self-amused helped him out and he teaches self-amusement and how it helps. He actually originally took the song "A whole new world" and started singing it with his friends on a night out and it had people join in, etc. Anyway Jon does teach a lot of stuff but in a dating point of view on his blog.
Click here to check it out.

How to be self-amused in a group?

Well okay lets throw you into a scenario where you are out with friends, and its a mixed group of friends, boys and girls. They're talking to someone but you want to be noticed by this someone, you become self amused. Like for example, when I went out into the city the other day, I literally just stood in one spot for 3 minutes wholly all on my own, I called some random woman and just pointed out what I was looking at and asked her something stupid like, "Doesn't that look like, xyz?"

Got a conversation going, next thing I know me and her are asking other people and at the end of it we had about 5 people starring exactly where I was originally because I was so self-amused by the thought. By the way in case your wondering we were looking at this Cloud that looked a lot like an Eagle.

So simple steps for becoming self amused:

Step 1) know what makes you laugh. Once you know this see how many other people find it funny, and if they don't. DO NOT change to say, "yeah it isn't that funny after all" because now you are losing congruence with the person/group. So stick to your guns on what makes you laugh.

Step 2) Work on your posture, the importance of posture is paramount because when you speak and something is funny and your very fluid to the body expression of the joke, people often laugh with you. They observe your body movement, if it is very stiff and you are laughing, they think your joke is not funny and if its something about yourself such as,
"I fell up the stairs today" They will think you are B.S'ing them.

Finally Step 3) Go out and start speaking to people, when you do. Make it a game with yourself to make the other person laugh. When you do this, you become the center of attention in their world. Which in turn if you do this with a group of friends, they will look at you, and you have the "floor" to speak and they will listen to you.

Oh and a final side step: DON'T BE BORING! I recently went to a seminar where one of the speakers was tremendously talented with a great range of how he could help you....BUT he was sooo boring, his deliverability was bad a lot of the crowd fell asleep.
And of course don't take anything to seriously because that doesn't come off as fun.

Best wishes,

Adil

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How to be the center of attention.... Part 1!

2009-07-06T23:49:00.005+01:00

Hey guys,

Sorry I haven't posted much, I have been busy....
Just a side note I have an up coming launch and if your following me on twitter, you will be one of the first to know about it.

Anyway on to today's subject.

How to be the center of attention without coming off as needy, small ego'd and annoying.

Okay some people I know personally tend to try to be the center of attention and I will be honest, it pisses me off a lot.
They'll do stuff like cut you off half way through a sentence, or interrupt your conversation with someone, etc....

Now there is a way to do this in a friendly manner, this is it to be honest.
Stand there waiting and naturally the party of people will naturally look at you, and when they do and aren't talking, just go ahead and say the thing you wanted to say, if it's relevant, great.
If not then just tell them, "Oh I just wanted to say something but finish up your conversation."

This shows that you honestly care about there conversation and don't want to be rude, winning "points" with them and having them more receptive when you speak.

So let's continue, how to be the center of attention:

If I had to break this down into steps it would be this and I have wrote and spoke on some of these subjects before

1) Reduce Your Social Anxiety

2) Be Self Amused

3) Smile

4) Be interested and interesting

5) Give them more value then they had before you joined them.

6) When leaving say goodbye to all and hug them if possible.

Okay so I will go into some now and some tomorrow and the day after because I don't like to give info overload.......

1) Reduce Your Social Anxiety!

This one is pretty straight forward, the question really is how.

But before that lets quickly recap what S.A is. S.A (Social Anxiety) is a feeling of people judging you, feeling awkward in a social place with other people or things there and/or just feeling a sinking feeling in the gut when next to some people.

This is a very much negative emotional state. Though you can shift it, the keyword here is state, meaning this can be overcome VERY quickly. A person who has low S.A. Is usually classed as more attractive to people, not just in the sense of sexual relationships but in the sense of business relationships, friends and speaking to strangers...

When you have low S.A. you will find a lot of people might stare at you, and because you have low social anxiety, they're more likely to interact positively to you when you speak. The reason is because showing you are not caring of there judgment's, the person subconsciously links you up to be a leader. And people love leaders.

A prime and recent example of this is how I met two lovely people named Hannah and Sandra. I was on my way back from London and thought to start doing my work on the coach. Now Sandra sat across the small aisle from me and Hannah behind her, it was very full. Anyway pretty much I needed some help and the person next to me wouldn't of known the answer because he was asleep.

So I thought, "might as well ask them." So I asked Sandra and Hannah a question and they replied quite normally which was great. Now had I had Social Anxiety, well a lot of it, I would have just waited until I got home and checked and not spoke to them as they are of the opposite gender and that would freak them out. But I thought in the sense of, "Lets ask".

Eventually I did just turn around and speak to them because they seemed fun and we had a great conversation.

So anyway, 1 of the tips I can give you to working on your social anxiety, is speak to sales assistants or the teller at the bank.

Seriously just ask, "how are you today?" Those words are like magic to people because they're shocked because you sincerely mean it and also because most people don't ask.

These people can't be mean to you and if they tease you it just means they are comfortable with you.

So your assignment for this week is to go and speak to sales assistant's and just speak to them and befriend them because that's how you make friends. Eventually you will start feel comfortable and then start speaking to strangers, asking for directions, then start to wait there for 30 seconds and continue a conversation, etc. Build on what you learn.

Okay I will be back soon with more.

Ooh, one last final thing though. Write/Draw out an image of who you want to be, because when you do, act like you were them already, this places a vibe around you that others pick up subconsciously and it really makes things easier.

If you are having trouble with this process, please feel free to email me at adilamarsi@googlemail.com

Bye for now,

Adil

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How fashion affects just about everything.....

2009-06-30T01:31:00.004+01:00

Hey all,

I just got back from London!
Well okay I got back at 11:30pm on Sunday 28th June 2009 but I haven't had time to post lol.

Anyway here's the thing guys, what does fashion have to do with anything that is with the self-improvement side of things?

Simply put.....EVERYTHING!!!

Have you guys ever been speaking to someone and they seem a little interested but not all that interested? But you barreled through and thought they were interested?

Well I had this little episode happen to me quite recently.

Pretty much what happened, while I was away at the traffic generation seminar in London, will give you more info in the P.S. While I was there I approached some people and spoke to them casually and they just seemed a little off with me. I was in a black shirt and quite dressed.

So I totally got a negative outcome to what I wanted. On my way back home to Leicester on Sunday I saw the same people, now I gathered they had forgotten me and I Was in my more casual gear of a fuchsia pink t-shirt and some black jeans. So I ended up approaching these people and they were so much more receptive.

I remember reading a while ago on how fashion was one of the ways humans size each other up.

So how you dress really does matter!

Remember people are visualistic(tm) creatures. So we judge from a looks point of view.

Hope this helps!

Adil

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how to overcome fears using the EGO

2009-06-24T10:00:00.000+01:00

Hola All!

Hope you have had a good few days, It's been beautifully hot over in the UK lately.

Anyway I thought to write this blog post up because I had to think of a great way to structure it.

BUT before I go into this post, I want you guys to know if you speak to your ego it helps. I went to a theme park last Friday and those that know me, know I have an immense fear of heights. And my friend decided, "Let's go on all the scary rides to scare the sh*t out of Adil."

I agreed and all the way through the queue I kept telling him how much I hated him for this, he said,
"Dude I was like that but don't worry you will be fine, you'll love me later."

Funnily, I did love the rides and it made me think, if we do things we initially hate, we learn to love them over time, which is pretty cool. Anywho we went on this ride called, Oblivion. Now this is a straight drop, meaning you go up to the highest point. Look over the edge and down at the ground, and are dropped through the roller coaster. I nearly soiled myself, then I told my ego, "Don't be afraid, you aren't going to die." - remember the Ego is a self-preservation mechanism.
Went through with it and conquered my fear of heights...yay for me, zippedy doo da :-).

Now time for the good stuff. :-p

If you noticed I told my ego it wasn't going to die?
Doing so tells my ego to relax and not be all weirded out and scared, thus giving me the strength to actually go ahead and accomplish what I wanted to do, get over my fear of heights.

So How can you apply this simple technique?

Well next time you're scared, if it's to purchase anything or if it's to go out somewhere, to go swimming, skating, surfing, jogging, to the gym, or anywhere positive. Just say to yourself,
"What is it about this that scares me?"

Once you have your answer follow up with telling yourself,
"Hey Ego (you can name yours if you want, no I haven't named mine....yet :p), don't worry we aren't going to die, we are going to be fine."

This is even with approaching a prospect, someone you're interested in dating, anything really.

So just doing those 2 things will help you in fact kick butt at kicking your fears butts!

best wishes,

Adil.

P.S. I am away from Thursday - Monday, If I can I will post on the events :).

6 Needs of the Ego.....4,5 and 6

2009-06-18T18:13:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Okay so far we have covered the first 3 of the 6 needs of the Ego.

Just to recap they are:

1) The Need to know.
2) The Need to be right.
3) The Need to judge.
4) The Need to justify.
5) The Need to get even.
6) The Need to look good.

These are pretty easy and basic needs to describe.

So Need number 4.. The need to Justify.

Have you ever done something so random and then immediately either justified it to yourself or to others. I'll give two cases.

1) You have the woman/man who is in an abusive relationship.
Just a little crowd participation please...
What is the logical thing to do if you are in an abused relationship?

That's right: LEAVE it and move on.

But people don't, those that know me know that I have experienced this first hand, well sort of, meaning I came from a bit of a unstable "environment". Anywho this led me to ask people, family members and those I knew who had gone through domestic violence, "Why did you wait so long to leave?" or "Why are you still there?".

The answer I got on average was because, "I love them". Now there is a reason that has to do with the attraction and dating process but that is for another time.

Or they will generally say, "So the kids have a parent around", etc. They will try to justify there ways of living because this blends into the need to be right. They do not want to be told, "You're wrong for living this way."

Now the good case example.

Imagine you are out shopping and you see a pack of crisps/potato chips. And the first you think is,
"Hmmm I want them, but I shouldn't get them"....Then you are at the check out getting them.

In your head you are possibly thinking, "OOH, this is going to ruin my figure, but it's only one pack, I will be fine."

Can you see the justification process? "It's only one pack, I will be fine."

But we all know because, I'm very guilty of this and some people are as well, maybe you to, where you say it's just one then it turns into more and more.

So you can see the need of justification.

Need number 5 is the Need to get even.

This is very self-explanatory, if you have ever been wronged by anyone you generally want to take some very mean action and sometimes you do then you go and justify it, about how it was a right move to do..

So do you see the needs all interlink with one another?

Okay onward and upward to the last one then I will share how some people are dealing with these needs and making them work in there favors.

The need to look good.

You always want to dress well and show a good face, or lead with the good foot.
The reason is because our minds hardwiring says we have to be as presentable as possible so we can mix with the people around us and not be the oddball out the group etc, this is were conformity comes in. Again another subject for another post.

All righty then, how to work with all the needs and keep them from destroying you, many of you who will read this might say, "oh so now I have to really monitor myself." Truth is you don't have to, all you really need to do is start off by conditioning your mind slowly into this habit of using the good things of the ego.

The need to be right can be curbed by the wanting to be accepted, this is done by being kind instead of being right. Which helps in a lot of cases, there is also forgiving yourself and others because, when you forgive you are giving up that cause and problem.

BUT this one little gem is something that has helped me in very aspect of life and I am sure it will help you. If you started viewing the earth and yourself from the spiritual plane, so you were way way wayyyyy up in space...Do you think the problems you face today are big? No way because you are bigger then them. So if you do this, it really takes away a lot of overwhelm.

Also just one last note, The art of focusing can be summed up to this next sentance,
"Focus is looking at the details but not forgetting there is a bigger picture, overwhelm happens when you take your eye off the bigger picture."

Best wishes,

Adil

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6 Needs of the Ego.....1,2 and 3

2009-06-15T19:21:00.003+01:00

Okay so we have discussed what the ego is and isn't.

So here are the 6 basic needs of everyone's ego. And these are universal.

1) The Need to know.
2) The Need to be right.
3) The Need to judge.
4) The Need to justify.
5) The Need to get even.
6) The Need to look good.

Before we begin, I want you to know, though your ego is a defense and self-preservation mechanism, remember if you give it to much power it will be in control and you may turn in to a complete ass.

Okay so let's begin with the first 3.

1) The Need to Know.

We covered some of this in the last post about the Super Ego and your I.D (Interests and Desires).

The ego does want to know everything, that's why some people are prone to gossip, while others spend all there free time consumed in studies. It's a part of our nature. If you were really into something, fashion, a role model, a historic figure, sport, sports star, etc. What ever it is, if I were to sit and start a conversation with you and all I did was use prods of conversation, such as,
"Tell me more..." Though I would be genuinely interested, I could just shut up and let you talk and guaranteed you will end up telling me everything about that subject you're interested in, because your ego has to know everything.

A thought to this is because your ego wants to know everything on the basis that it can calculated the next possible and best decision you can make to better your situation and to ensure your survival. Remember the Ego is a self-preservation mechanism.

Sometimes we don't know the answer and what our ego does is provoke a knee jerk reaction that has become known as lying and/or making stuff up. We go ahead and do this and the worst thing happens, we start to live it.

Famous Comedian Chris Rock says it best,
"We lie so much its damn near a language, we lie so much we live complete lies at times". Now this is a paraphrase on what Chris actually said.
But it stands as a truth for the most part and proves my point.

Another quick thing to let you know about the Ego, it is a Drama Producing Machine.
If you are living a life of no drama in it, you will quickly find yourself watching a soap opera, the reason is because your ego finds drama exciting. "Will this happen or not?" , "Who killed who?", "Will my favorite cartoon character beat this bad guy?", etc. Do you see the drama? The ego loves it because it makes it feel alive, and if it has drama in its live and then suddenly it goes away, you will quickly find new dramas in your life or you will be in front of the TV watching a soap opera.

(SIDE NOTE)...Soap opera's are highly successful because of this one factor, they know drama drives the Ego and so they put it on so your ego can have a "nice" tall refreshing glass of drama.

Alright onward to Need Number 2..
The Need to be Right.

This is relatively short. So here goes,

Did you know most people would rather be right then Rich? Yet they constantly moan about how broke they are? Well it's true people generally would be right then rich, by this I mean to say,

Imagine for a moment, if you were in an argument with a client trying to sell a house. Now you know this house is right for them, you know the price is perfect and you know if you land this house you get a raise and you will get rich. Now you are arguing about something very random that isn't all that important. Here's how it usually plays out.

You: "Is there any problems, Sir/Madam?"

Them: "Yes, I love this house but I think the electronic switches are too far away."

You: Offer suggestion, followed by smile.

Them: Being Rude....Arguments begin.

[20 mins later]

Them: "That's it we are leaving and not buying this house."

What happened? Well your ego tried to get you to be right trying to point out that your solution was correct, and they weren't thinking incorrectly. So it fought with them because your ego thought, "If I lose, I will die." Remember it is a survival mechanism so it thinks everything and everyone is trying to kill you.

You argued lost the house deal and then bam you missed your shot at being rich there and then.

Dealing with this is pretty cool, all you have to do instead is agree with the person, don't argue and just be polite. Remember you can't control anyone, you can only influence them. So be polite and if they argue, just say something nice or nothing at all. Don't be to attached and let things be.

Onwards to the final of the 3 today:

The need to judge.

So we all have this need to judge things, people, places and so on and so forth. The reasoning behind it is so you know what is friendly and safe and what is deadly and harmful. Again a survival mechanism.

Other times it could be out of jealousy because someone is right and you are wrong, and then you feel like you need to judge there work.

Our perceptions of the world determine our judgments of people, whether they are good thoughts or bad ones. For instance, if you saw the most beautiful male/female in the world walk in front of you with there friends, one of two things will pop into your brain..

1) This person is popular and let's befriend them, I am sure they are nice.

2) This person is popular, they're probably mean and will try to kill you, run away and hide now.

The best way to curb this, is to speak to the ego and assure it that the judgment you have passed is not entirely true, and there is no way you can die by saying the words, "Hello and how are you?" to a person. Unless the assessment is this person has a gun and doesn't like me and I could get shot, then you want to listen to your ego and probably run hehe.

So if your perceptions of the world are good and you constantly look for good you will, usually by default, end up judging things as, "This is going to be fun."

I hope this helps I will continue with the next part of this soon enough.

Best wishes,

Adil

What is the Ego

2009-06-13T20:48:00.005+01:00

Hey guys,

This is the first of 3 posts on understanding the Ego, because many people have a misconception of the Ego.

Now this is a bit of a touchy subject because some people may moan about it, but truth is. This is from Jerry "DRhino" Clark's work as well as my own personal experience as well as some naturally very confident people, etc. I spoke to a lot of people about this before writing this post.

So here goes...

Firstly what is Ego?

Some would say, "Ego is arrogance, its a bad thing, it's Edging God Out, etc"....so pretty much negative.

Others would say, "The Ego is just awesome, makes me believe in me, it helps me out and when I am in flow with my ego I totally kick butt at what I do and keeps me confident."

.....This is a view of the winners. They see the ego as a positive thing.

And the 3rd set of people say,
"The Ego is a self-preservation mechanism in your body that holds your beliefs. If you have held beliefs of confidence, joy and being great, then your ego plays them out to you. If you believe it is a bad thing and believe little of yourself, your ego makes you feel bad. You can never get rid of the Ego because it to has its own preservation in mind."

Believe it or not, number 3 is a scientific way of putting of it and yes they are the most right of the 3, number 2 was a second close and number 1, well that's just daft and anyone who thinks that way is doomed to have a very unconfident life....That's mean but it's a truth.

Now the good news, you can over come that original objection and work with the ego.

So lets delve deeper into what the Ego is and isn't.

So as you know the Ego is the self-preservation mechanism in your body that keeps your beliefs, some useful still to this day, some very harmful, to networkers and conversationalists, the "Don't talk to strangers" rule goes out the window because you know everyone is a stranger. Today people who don't have that rule in there mind go on to make new friendships with people who help them and become best friends....

Side note, think about it, your best friend, partner, circle of friends, boss, manager, co-workers, etc were all strangers at one point.

Another thing the Ego is, is a middle ground and this was a little shocking to me when I learned about it.
So you have:

SUPER EGO - This is societies programming of you, MOSTLY Lack mentality, sometimes completely LACK mentality.

EGO

Your wants and desires - This is what you would want in your life, etc.

Now the ego is in the middle, It has to please society because it doesn't want you getting hurt by being different (though this is a good thing to be different). But it doesn't want you to abandon your values, needs, wants and desires.

Judging on how you think of yourself your ego works to which is more dominant, society or your wants and desires. So that is what the Ego is.

Having a Big Healthy Ego is one of the best things to have, because it shows you have belief in yourself which is a natural trait of a leader. But the cool thing is, you don't have to do it alone, that is when your ego gets in your way, when you want to do everything ALONE, the best thing I learned is always have someone to ask for help. This keeps your feelings and Ego in check, because you're letting other people help you out.

What the Ego isn't

The Ego is NOT an excuse to be a total ass to people, in fact the ego is meant to make you confident enough to do things others won't so you can go ahead and empower people through it by uplifting there spirits.

The ego isn't an evil thing at all its just a part of you that you have to come to terms with.

Different Sizes of EGO.

Okay so we know what an ego is, what an ego isn't so what about Size?
We briefly said a big healthy ego is great, but having a small ego is the worst thing.

Permit me to explain:

Someone with a big ego is someone who has belief in themselves.
At a party or meeting, there's these sorts of people, there's the dominant guy, massive ego and definitely loving everything. The party animal, big ego, loves people and loves having a great time. The quiet shy person, believe it or not they can have a big ego as well. They maybe the person who is looking after the people throwing up or generally doing all the cleaning etc.
Even the analytical people have a lot of fun and stuff.

The same sort of people can be at the same party and be the biggest drag downs ever and cause total boredom.

This is all down to ego. You see the second group of people have small egos and thus need constant self and social validation, meaning they will constantly say they've done "xyz", they are very shy to talk to new people and when they do, they often ask themselves, later on this is, if they made a good impression and think about what they other person thinks of them, etc.

The first group are self and social validated, meaning they only are there to enjoy themselves and give as much fun to other people as possible and because they are having so much fun together, the social group will accept this person. They don't speak to much about how great they are, or if they do, it's all in humor. Or because they were asked to speak on it. These people don't ask themselves if everyone liked them, rather they asked, "When can we all meet up and do this again, because it was a really fun time?"

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Look out for the second part of this posting :)

The Buddy System

2009-06-10T22:38:00.004+01:00

Okay you are really lucky to actually have me share this technique with you, because this is my pride and joy. This one technique, is what I would say played the biggest part of me over coming my social anxiety and fear of people when I was 15. This is a technique used to build friendships quickly.

I had no idea I was using this at all until I decided to study myself and also to check out what made people like me, dislike me and where the psychology behind it came from.

This technique is originally taken from women, then transformed into something for men to use and ultimately is something different.

As I'm pretty sure, all women know of the buddy system right? For the men and possibly few women that don't know the Buddy System, it's when a woman goes anywhere, especially the toilet, they have to take a girl friend, friend who is a girl, to the toilet with them. There are so many reasons why but lets not divulge into them.

“So does this mean, if I'm a man, I have to take my best bud into the toilets with me?”

No that's not what this is part is about, you see I built my social circle relying heavily on friend introduction. So what this does actually mean is that one of the best ways to get over a social anxiety of meeting people is to get a very social friend, everyone has one of these, and get them to introduce you to their friends.

How is this going to help? Simple, when you are introduced by your friend, you are usually given a very warm opening, meaning in the sense, everyone there isn't threatened by you or feels weirded out by you.

Now from this point you can pretty much start off the conversation, and just get to know about them more so.

Then you can build your social circle and eventually after they gain trust with you, by spending more time with you. You can start recommending small things to them, like a book or something, then build from there.

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Click here to see how to influence yourself

How to influence the mind

2009-06-08T15:36:00.004+01:00

The two links as promised.

http://manifesteasy.cjb.net/

As I've said before one of the best ways I learned to manifest while relaxing.

But this is something I have recommended to EVERYONE plus there is a kick-butt money back guarantee.
Anyway this does help me a lot in my life and was recommended to me by a lot of friends.

So I recommend it to you, Click here

How you look really matters

2009-06-04T02:20:00.003+01:00

Hey guys,

How you look really matters, when it comes to meeting people.

The way you look will be a HUGE determining factor for people to either do business with you or they just don't. Speak to you nicely or in a tone that says, "I don't want you near me."

We, as humans in general, are very visual beings. So this means we perceive things through how we see them and judge them from there.

Research and development people in companies actually design the box or container of the product before they make a product. Having the experience of working in an assembly line I can assure you that they do put a lot of work into how things look.

"Okay so what does the whole packaging thing have to do with me?" As always, EVERYTHING.

This is pretty much going to be the first of a few series of posts I am going to be doing leading up to the launch of an ebook collection series....But more on that another time.

Okay so here goes, The way you look when you go out is what makes people think things of you and surprisingly now a days, how you dress also affects how you feel. Which in my opinion, Sucks Royally.

So here is some quick tips on how to battle this little monster.

Learn how to groom yourself, like majorly groom yourself daily, make sure you look great, your hair is done the right way, your breath doesn't smell, your face hasn't been moisturized or something.

You want to also pick someone to model after, just check out a magazine and start to model that persons style. This will really help you out. If you don't have the clothes, donate your large clothes and go out with a friend and get some fitted clothing.

I won't lie to you, I did this in my casual personal life, I went out and bought, what is now y favorite t-shirt, a fuchsia pink t-shirt. Prior to buying it all my tops where either large or extra large. I changed to wear medium tops (that fit me) and even a small top, that was a bit too tight. But when I did and combined it with grooming and few other little things I learned, I started having people approach and talk to me, some for business, some to be friends, some just to have a conversation with me.

Anyway next up on the things to help you look better, if you feel your hair isn't working just go see a hair stylist and ask what would look good on you. Then go from there.

Take a trusty friend with you, preferably female or an Italian. . . both have great fashion sense. By the way I mean Italian male or female.

Best wishes,

Adil

p.s. click here for my goals ebook

What color is love?

2009-05-27T15:24:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

This is a bit of a relationships post. I got an email a couple of days ago from a really awesome guy by the name of Adam Lyons, who in many peoples opinions is one of the best dating coaches/guru's around.

Now he recently sent an email to people about his "dating science" website in which anyone can ask him a question, and watch as Adam and his team go out and get the results in real life.

So the second episode of Dating Science is entitled, "What Color is love?"
I didn't know this until Adam pointed this out in the video that a university tested to see which color men found most attractive, low and behold it was the color red.

But Adam, being the kind of guy he is, looks at one thing then tries to find every possible outcome (can anyone guess his personality color? :-) ) went out and decided to do a reverse test, what color do women find attractive on men....

Can you guess?

Well instead of me telling you, how about I let the man talk for himself.

Click here to get Adam's Answer!

Best wishes,

Adil

What does the Matrix, emotional field therapy and you all have in common?

2009-05-25T00:08:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

I thought to make this a special post because I am super happy today, I came in 3rd on a competition.

So what does the movie, The Matrix, Emotional Field Therapy (EFT) and you all have in common?

Well you all have a brain and it plays the most vital part.
Now as you probably know in The Matrix, Morpheus tells Neo that,
"Whatever happens in the matrix, the mind makes it real"

This is after Neo fails to jump over a building during the training simulation and falls flat on his face and busts his mouth open... At the same time in the "Real world" his mind makes his actual mouth bleed.

Now how is this connected to EFT you might ask and whats it got to do with You?

Well let's see the similarities, EFT is all about using the Chinese Meridians in your body to get rid of different illnesses and it has proven to work with a whole host of different illnesses, both physical, metaphysical, mental, emotional, etc parts of your body. Like the man who healed himself of MRSA or the person who used this to get rid of there money limitations, etc.

Anyway so how this applies is that your mind, controls your body. So those Meridians are nerve impulses to your brain. What that means is, that EFT, if you're wondering if it works, does work. So how do you apply this awesome technique?

Well I will tell you what, get on to my mailing list, and I will be writing up a VERY special report for you everyone on my list to have over the coming week.

So click here to get my free ebook and get on my list to get this special ebook.

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Click here for your ebook

P.P.S. Remember the lines are open there are only 15 spots left on the conference call which I will be revealing a new mindset technique to everyone this Sunday.

Screw you I'm Awesome!

2009-05-21T20:02:00.003+01:00

Screw you, I'm awesome!

Yesterday I was in London to see my cousin and my friends, Will and Tom, they live in London and Will is a bit of a ladies man as well. We went to a bar to hang out and Will saw this girl. Will went up to her and got shot down by her and some random guy that was clearly friends with this girl came out with,

"Oh good luck tryna get with her, loser"

The girl had heard it but her friend didn't think she had. I was just sitting by with a smile on my face because I knew what would happen next, the girl had stopped dead in her tracks to see what he would do, without actually look at Will.

Anyway Will smiled, and said this a little to loud,

"Well, SCREW you, I'm F**king awesome!"

The girl instantly, as well as most of the bar turned around, looked at Will, who smiled and said,

"Now I have your attention, lets get to know each other a little better." Surprisingly she sat down with us and starting talking to him.

Me and Tom were just talking and laughing about what just happened....anyway there is a lesson here.

Firstly, make sure you have low social anxiety because it won't benefit you if you have high social anxiety.

But here's the lesson I learned, you gotta stick this to your brain, YOU ARE AWESOME....
This mindset may seem like, "oh you're full of yourself"..

Which is partly true but imagine it, do you wanna be like everyone else? Or do you want to stand out from the crowd, go against the grain and come out on top. Because that is something I can guarantee.

When you do something different to other people YOU WILL get different results, usually successful results.

So here's something you can do today, go do something you have been putting off. Go speak to that hot girl/guy you keep eying up. Go spend time with your family, go ahead and speak to some stranger on the bus or at work or on the street. It makes a whole world of difference, TRUST me on that.

Best wishes,

Adil

More fun then running around with your underpants on your head!!!

2009-05-20T12:49:00.003+01:00

So What's more fun then running around with your underpants on your head?

Well several things but here's what I wanted to share....

What if you could be taught how to sell but in a way that it was fun? Would you be interested?
I would think so because learning how to sell, firstly is seen as, BAD! but in actual fact we're selling pretty much 24 hrs a day, 7 days a week, 12 months a year, 27,740 days a life time (That's 76 years).

Yes you did sell even when you were running around with underpants on your head thinking you were a super hero....good old days... anyway here's the thing. I am currently learning some of the coolest selling, influencing and marketing strategies (Well I think so at least) that have been around.

Stuff by Robert Cialdini (master of influence), Brian Tracy, Jerry Clark, Anthony Robbins, Jay Abraham, Frank Kern, Eben Pagan, etc....

NOW the reason I am posting this is because I wanted to get a study group together on skype....like every Sunday where we share some stuff and work on marketing plans. Don't worry there will be NO PITCHING allowed. So It is all EDUCATION :).

This will be a 6 week course, in which I will be sending out emails to you regularly full of information, ebooks, and tips. The Sunday's will be to kind of get a Q and A going.

I will be getting guests coming in to teach. If you are interested.

PLEASE Comment with your skype add and tell me if you're interested.

OR

Email me at adilamarsi@googlemail.com
with your details and we can get this going.

Spaces are limited I can only hold a class of 22 people on skype. So please let me know :).

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. If you haven't got my ebook yet.
Click here and get it :)

P.S. This is open to everyone

Personal Word from Brian Tracy

2009-05-16T02:06:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

I wanna ask a rhetorical question, do you know who Brian Tracy is?

I am assuming you do because he is a super awesome guy, anyway if you're unfamiliar with Brian's work check out any one of his video's on youtube.

Anyway Brian is holding a free, that's right a free webinar on monday, I only have about 10 spots to fill, So if you want to hear Brian Tracy tell you about his new project on Monday.

Reply to this post or email me.

Best wishes,
Adil

Your Gift...

2009-05-10T20:30:00.000+01:00

Hye guys,

I hope you are well, if you are here from the email I sent you, then awesome.

Here's the gift I want to give you.

It's called the greatest networker in the world by John Milton Fogg.

This book literally helped me change my attitude, it works with network marketing, direct sales, mlm, communication, influence and LIFE in general.

So take advantage of John M. Fogg's awesome offer by clicking below and downloading his best selling ebook.

Get the book here

Best wishes,

I appreciate you all.

Adil

Something crazy....

2009-05-09T22:54:00.002+01:00

Aloha,

How are you doing today?

I just went through something I thought would be a waste of my time....You know what, it wasn't.

As everyone knows, time is the most valuable asset you can have, did you know the average human has about 28,000 days to live from birth....that's about 76ish years to live from the day you're born.

Anywho that's not the crazy thing. This is, Mike Dillard's instruction I got....

Do a reverse affirmation....Now when I read this my mind went from,

"Mike Dillard, guy who is quite cool and I like his stuff" to, "Mike Dillard, you crazy mofo how come no one else tells you this!"

Pretty much, as Mike states, our minds work on and from what we think about ourselves and believe, but more importantly it works at a higher rate on what it believes OTHER people think about you and your beliefs.

So if you kept saying "I'm the coolest person in the world"...Yes this will work, but something that works quicker is, "You think I'm the coolest person in the world"....Thinking that while talking to people helps....A LOT!

I haven't done this but it was suggested.... when speaking to a prospect,

"You can't wait to join me because you think I am a genuine, inspirational leader who is here to help you."

BY THE WAY, you say these in your head. NOT OUT LOUD INFRONT OF THE PROSPECT, you may come off as being weird and creepy, and they will walk away.

Write down some of your reverse affirmations and hope this helps!

Adil

P.S. I updated my ebook so please feel free to get a copy for free here

Colours

2009-05-07T15:20:00.002+01:00

ok so a quick random post which full audience participation will be asked for.

ok so here goes,

What color should I have as the background for my new site?

I was lost for thought.

As a prize for those that help me out I will send you the 2 ebooks of your choice, from the collection I will be selling.

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Click here

Guru Assassin!

2009-05-04T22:56:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

This is for internet marketers mostly. Or anyone looking to make money online.

Here's the scoop, I bought this product a few weeks ago but never got around to using it until a few days ago. I went through it all in my spare time and here's the cool thing.

It works, all products do work but not everyone is right for them, but this really did work and I gotta say, the guys who created this made some awesome bonuses and some awesome videos.

I would recommend this to anyone, in fact my mother is using this right now to start making money online!

So pretty much click here and check out there page. I encourage you to buy because the bonuses alone are just awesome. This product will return your investment IF you apply it all!

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Click here

Learn ultimate Confidence.....

2009-04-27T21:48:00.001+01:00

Hey guys,

I hope you are all well.

I know that the reason most people don't meet new people is because they have a seemingly self-esteem/confidence issue.
"How do you raise your confidence?" seems to be a common question, that is shockingly never answered properly.

I did discover a way to raise my own confidence and it was really simple, I walked my mum through this exercise and her confidence went through the roof , by the way I take NO CREDIT for this technique. All credit goes to a hypnotist by the name of Hypnotica, and if anyone has read Neil Strauss' The Game, he is known as Rasputin (Only found that out from his site).

Anyway the exercise is simple, start off by standing in either an open space, or a room that has no blockages to trip you up.

So stand in the centre and make sure and say this out loud. At the wall behind you or the place behind you (and mark it) is where you feel the least confident and the wall ahead or the place ahead of equal distance and say out loud, "This is where I feel most confident and can do anything I want", or known as your state of flow....

So yes close your eyes, inhales deeply and take in where you are, now take one step back, acknowledge the feeling (you should feel a lil heavier and sadder) the point of this is to acknowledge things can get worse and by knowing worse you can get better and appreciate it more.
So take one step back, accept in, inhale deep and take it in. When you have this done, take another step back and repeat.

Then take one step forward. Did you feel the difference? Right, now inhale and take this experience in.
Take another step forward, do you feel lighter?
Inhale, take another step forward, how do you feel?
Take a step back.

Each step, take in the experience, breathe in and then keep taking steps forward and back, when u want to end it, make sure your at the super confident stage as this well help you out.

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. Click here to get my e-book free

Journey back in time....

2009-04-25T00:21:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

Sorry I haven't posted in 2 weeks, a lot has been happening and let's just leave it there :).

On the bright side, I have found and still finding out more about why I, personally do things.
So how this affects you, is that you can use what I learned for yourself and reap those rewards :).

Ok so as you know I had to see my aunt/psychiatrist, and she told me to do some meditation among other things, by the way thank you to Jerry Pinero, Debbie K and all the other people who sent me suggestions for mediation...I read through the ones I found, briefly and there awesome.

Anywho as I was mediating I came across something I had long since forgotten, it's amazing how your brain will block out painful memories. So I went through a few painful memories over the time I had free and something amazing happened that hasn't happened since I was 10. By the way I am nearly 20!
I began to cry, not from pain, rememberance of fear or anything like that, but crying from seeing it there and letting it go...at last.

I still have many more to go through but I know it helps us grow.

So here's what I would love you guys to do for me ok?

To get this feeling into yourself, start a quick mediation, breathe in through the nose, and out through the mouth, engaged in your mind, and do this until your mind is quiet.
Then let it flow into itself and you will discover some cool things in there, trust me.

When you come across anything positive, embrace it and be grateful for it and if it is negative, just observe it, and disassociate from it, this will help you grow.

The positive things, write them down, and use them in your emotional bank account and keep them close.

Best wishes and I hope this helps.

Adil A Amarsi

P.S. Click here to get a copy of my e-book, for free

Good vs Bad

2009-04-10T21:37:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,

This is a "good vs bad" problem solving post. Mainly cos I thought it was a cool post to do and it makes all the sense in the world.

Basically, if you were to send either God or the Devil to deal with a problem who would you send?

God will be using forgiveness and can't be bought out, unless its a peaceful way.
The Devil will be using destruction and can be bought out even if it is done by deceit and probably will bite you in the butt.

Now which would you pick?

Most people say, God, right?
Well take this into another analogy, if you have a problem with someone, don't send hate(the Devil) but send Love (God) to do your work of forgiveness.

So the lesson I learned is send forgiveness and love to someone who annoyed you. I know this is hard but my aunt/therapist told me to and I have done with that person and the relationship is rebuilding. Once this relationship is rebuilt I know I can resume being myself around people that think I am mad at them....

To those friends, I am not mad at you, nor upset at you, I still love you it's just I need time to heal this first...

Sorry for going on a random tangent. But definitely give this thing a try.

Blessings and best wishes,

Adil

A lesson well learnt.....the actual progress

2009-04-07T13:28:00.005+01:00

Hey guys,

As you read in my last post, I saw my aunt and well she gave me a bunch of tasks to do...
So here goes, my first task was to make a list of things I'm grateful for, why I'm grateful for them, use the Core Influence stuff from Mass Control and then to top it all off, reread the Alchemist by Paulo Coelho.

So I have just about finished my gratitude list, and now going to write the reasons why next to them.... It isn't droll it's quite fun, mainly because my reward is I get to go skating for an hour.

For those who don't know what core influence is, it was on the "A cool way to really kick start your life...." Well partially.

Just a quick update, will be back soon with some awesome content, chat in a few days!

Best wishes,

Adil

Click here to manifest your dreams....Quicker :-)

A lesson well learnt

2009-04-05T20:24:00.003+01:00

Hey guys and gals,

I just got home from my Aunty's place in Birmingham, UK.
Now I just had to write this post up because, she is my aunty but more importantly she is my psychiatrist and I could only see her today.

Now the reason I am babbling on about my aunt is because she gave me some superb advice today, I have been for a few months been dealing with a problem that I can't seem to shake and as a result I decided, "Time to see my aunt again"....So off I went to Birmingham, we sat and talked then she started the interrogation part :P.

"Why do you feel this way? What effect has it had on you, your business, friends, family, etc?"

We continued and about 6 hours later, we came to the conclusion that I had been in a state of not knowing and I asked really odd questions. She asked me also, Just as my friend Sheryl did,
"When was the last time you meditated?"

I told her its been a while, so my aunt being as brill as she is, set up a work chart for me, of simple things to do daily, in which I will be sharing with you all, so you to can take some lessons away.
JUST so you know.... I DON'T have the answers to life's problems.

I wanna share with you my experience because one day, who knows, someone might have this prob and this post could be sent to them :).

Ok so the first thing she told me to do was,

Re-evaluate yourself, your friends, goals, dreams, perceptions and purposes.
write out what you wanna do
Do a new 30 day mental fast.
Don't listen to people you don't like
Don't let those people effect you, if they are talking, you start walking.

There's more she shared with me as well which I will share along the way. For now though this is the start.

Best wishes,
Adil

One of the biggest killers to success in life!

2009-04-02T23:34:00.003+01:00

WORTHINESS!
Is the answer....
This is a bit of a serious post. Many networkers have this problem, and because of it they tend to leave there companies, quit or just continue in silent desperation.

So the question here is, how do you resolve worthiness issues.

Like,

"Am I worthy of success in.....[Fill in with what you do]?"
"Am I worthy of love?"
"Am I worthy of health?"
"Am I worthy of Prosperity?"

These are some questions I have heard before. So I would like you, the reader to submit your best ways around this issue. How have you done it, or do you know someone that has?
If so how did they?

I would love to have all of you comment to this. or email me with a response :).

I would like to know as well because if I should come across this then I will be well equipped....or better yet, if someone I know has this issue I will have some good advice...

Blessings and best wishes,

Thank you.

Adil

P.S. Learn to manifest your dreams :)

This is an amazing quote....

2009-03-29T22:34:00.002+01:00

Hey guys,
I just got back today from my retreat and before I went I read this quote, and It just blew my mind because it is so true....

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

- Marianne Williamson

I hope you enjoy it :).

Best wishes,
Adil

P.S. Get your copy of my ebook here

Shell vs Core

2009-03-26T20:21:00.003Z

Ok so you've read my last post...
Great but here's the truth, you have two identities.
You have a Shell identity and a Core identity.

It's basically who you are and who you really are. Let me elaborate, in the last post I relayed some info I got from Frank Kern.

Pretty much this post is telling you the differences and how it all impacts you.
So you have your shell identity, e.g. I am a banker, network Marketer, internet marketer, rockstar, dating coach, pro skateboarder, etc...

That's all good and well but that's not you. We all have things we would rather be doing.
So your shell identity is pretty much who you are on your day to day.

But to really connect and influence people you need to know your CORE identity and that exercise and post i did last time involved your core identity. So your core identity is what you really want in life, who you really are. If your not with your core identity it will show up. Have you ever been in a presentation where the speaker says all the right things, looks great etc? but at the end your still kinda, "Yeeeaaaah I don't know if I wanna buy/join/partner with you"
The reason that happened was because the person that presented wasn't in line with his core identity so he spoke from his shell. We can know pick this stuff up, so if there core is speaking to our core....by the way this is all subconscious. We just wanna be by them.

So by addressing the experiences you want, and attract into your life, guess what? They will start showing up. Really get specific, detail out your perfect customer, what are they like, how old are they, how do they feel, etc? EVERY detail counts.

Anyway I hope this has been a help guys.

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. See you guys on Monday, I am away on a spiritually religious retreat this weekend :)

A cool way to really kick start your life....

2009-03-24T12:18:00.004Z

Hey guys,

Have you ever heard, "What would your perfect life be like?"

Well I'm gonna go ahead and say, that doesn't work as a good question.
Remember the quality of your life is based on the quality of the questions you ask, By which if you ask a lousy question you will get a lousy outcome/answer.

Now before some of you go ahead and tell me off, hear me out.

I think we could be asking a clearer question, which I heard by different people but Frank Kern was the one who sort of opened my eyes and made it easier :P.

When I first heard that I could ask a clearer question, my immediate thought was...."huh?" Then it was more of a "What are you on about, How can I do this?"

Well I asked that question and immediately I got an answer while watching the DVD....
Anyway simply put,
"What would my perfect AVERAGE day look like?"
"IF I had to live this way everyday, and if I didn't I would die, what would it look like?"

Then from there just break it down....don't say something like,
"Wake up, smoke a ton of drugs followed by a vodka binge, then have sex with a bus full of women, then drive my car at top speed"....that will get you killed.

Seriously you want to do something along the lines of where do you live, what does your house look/smell/feel like etc?
What are the first thoughts of your day? while you brush your teeth, what would you have for breakfast, etc....

So break it down to the mundane things because if you don't then it's hard for you...but if you do then it's very simple...

The reason I recommend this SO highly is because, when I did this, I felt like I was there, in reality where I wanted to be not where I am...

I hope you guys do this as it really will help you out.
If you have any questions. Please email me.

Best wishes,

Adil

P.S. The mental fast is going great, I just haven't had time to post much because of all the studying :)

How can I be inspired?

2009-03-19T12:15:00.004Z

"How can I be inspired?"

This is the exact question that has been on my mind since April 2008. And I have only just found out. Though I knew but didn't know if you understand, it was a real "Ah ha" moment.

I was listening to some CD's by Dr. John DeMartini and was reading one of his books, "How to have an amazing life in just 60 days".

For those who know who Dr. DeMartini you will know he speaks a lot on purpose, communication and healing.
Those who don't know about him, I suggest you have a quick look through his site, or watch/read the secret....if you still want to know more I suggest you join Success University and take his courses as he is a faculty member there.

Anyway, what I had learned was something amazing, and I hope that you apply what I am about to write because it has certainly led me into a new way of thinking about life but more importantly helped me help some more people.

Ok so here goes,
I found out how to be inspired because while studying several books, CD's, DVD's, home study courses, and success university material, I found myself still asking, "How do I become inspired like the authors who keep speaking about it?"
Remember the quality of your life is based on the Quality of your questions...

So in asking, which was in January 2009, I started to attract the answers I looked for....
Now here's the kicker of all of this, the answer was so simple....

It was to find my purpose and live it daily.
There are many ways to find your purpose and I will share my favourite way in video form soon enough, anyway so what I learned also was to read books by those people who inspired me, the Tony Robbins, Kalpesh Patel, Johnny Wimbrey, Jim Rohn, Les Brown, Zig Ziglar, John Demartini, John Assaraf, Art Williams, Jerry Clark, etc. There are many. Now the reason behind it all is, if you were to stick your hand in glue, then stick it into something like, shreded paper, or patterned materials your going to pull your hand out with some of the substance on your hands.

So if you indulge your mind in books, courses, DVD's, CD's, etc of these people that your inspired by, some of the master techniques and works will stick into your mind.
So you will become inspired. Another way is also using the clearing method I suggested. This way your mind isn't being counter-effective against you and thus creating more good things and letting inspiration in.

Let's quickly look at the word inspiration or inspired....it all comes down to being, "in spirit" so let yourself be in spirit.

So there you have it, the massive secret is clear your path, then read and study the greats to become inspired...
I am at this time making video's on something that had an amazing effect on me....
so keep an eye on my blog and youtube channel.

Best wishes,

Adil

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Back from London with some new stuff in mind

2009-03-16T20:00:00.004Z

Hey guys,
I got back from London today,
and it was pretty awesome.
I came wondering about a few questions, and I want you to think about them as well....
They were:

How forgiving am I?
What more can I do to give more value?
How many people can I help?

Now these where just 3 of the like 30 questions I had.....anyway.

The reason I asked the first question was because there was some healing I needed to do with a few relationships, so far I've done 2 out of the 4 healing's...which means that's 50% done, now some people have thought to ask me, "Why are you forgiving people that have wronged you or you've wronged them and got away, etc?"
Simply because on Friday 13th March 2009, I had an experience, one that I don't I'll forget, I woke up and my entire body felt like I had been stabbed, every inch....Now what I later concluded for myself, in a, "Whats happening and why fashion" rather then, "Oh crap"....My entire body was drained of energy so I had a choice of what to fill it with whatever energy I wanted.

Then before I went bed I spoke to Kalpesh Patel on Skype, just after I heard his call that I posted....so the post before this. Now he asked me to heal some relationships because it was obvious that was something that was stopping me from manifesting completely.
Turns out I had a few blocks from my past that have been getting in the way so I need to forgive them in order to move forward.

Yesterdays seminar thats one of the biggest messages I heard, like I said I did 2 outta the 4.

Anyway this is some of the stuff, click here to view some of the other stuff I learned, on video :).

Best wishes,

Adil

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How strong is your team?

2009-03-13T19:03:00.002Z

Hey guys,

How strong is your team?
If your team is either strong or weak this will give you more of a boost.
Those that know this man personally know he is a true leader and is a phenomenal friend...

The one and only Kalpesh patel!

SO get ready to learn:
✓ How to identify and sponsor leaders
✓ How to develop and retain leaders
✓ How to believe in yourself as a leader
✓ Much, much more!

Guys you will not be sorry listening to this call.

Here's the link

Click here straight after!

By the way I will be away this weekend so you guys enjoy this weekend!

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi

Special call....Can you say, Recession proof?

2009-03-12T20:38:00.004Z

Hey guys,

Just a quick blog post,
Day 4 is going great cos im figuring out my entire life, anyway.
HERE'S WHAT IM EXCITED ABOUT THOUGH!!!!!!!!

This week Johnny Wimbrey has been getting grilled on the phones to share how to get recession proof!

Now I aint gonna go ahead and spoil what he said, I would rather you hear the words from the proverbial horses mouth!

Click here to listen in

After you have heard it, CLICK ME

OH BY THE WAY,

There's a special guest, if you reply to this post on facebook or my blog and tell me who it is, there will be something special being sent your way completely free.....There is a limited amount though, so as Jerry Clark would say,

GO GO GO!

Day 3 Results plus an awesome Lesson from James Arthur Ray

2009-03-12T11:45:00.001Z

Hey guys,

Day 3 is going great. I did a lot of relaxing, which is good because it gave me a chance to "Empty my cup"....What I did learn though was something really important, it was a lesson of reflection.

I went to the skatepark at 7pm and was there until about 9:30 - 10pm....I hadn't skated in a while and this was my first time on the ramps. I saw a 17 year old, who you could obviously tell had just started, he was having trouble with his balance. I thought to go over and give him a hand, as it took me a while to learn how to balance on my board. He accepted my offer and we started to go over some of the basics, his name was Mike.

What Mike had shown me was something a mentor of mine said to me I think 7 months in to my network marketing career, to gain success, persistence and evaluation is key.
I hadn't really taken it in because I personally was confused about what he meant. But seeing Mike on his board do just those to things really got me, thing was Mike fell off at least 30 times, landed on his feet or into a roll. When I asked him why he wouldn't land on his feet at times, he simply said, "Dude, if I land on my feet all the time, when I bail out on a big ramp, I'll break my legs, but if I land in a roll, I decrease my chances of major injury"....

So we went on skating together, he got his balance and started pushing more and more, then I thought to kick it up a notch and see if he could Ollie. I still can't Ollie because I'm not used to skating Goofy but Mike was a natural Goofy with practice hehe. So he persisted and the rest of that night, me and him were trying different tricks and hit the ramps. We fell of a couple of times but it was worth it.

The real surprise though was when I got home. I had been sent a gift, it was a James Arthur Ray CD....Harmonic Wealth.
I started to listen to James, as I love the way he delivers his talks. I haven't finished it, I only got to chapter 1. While listening I had several realizations and well some where cool, others weren't but this is the awesome lesson I got just from chapter one... You will never be in balance, so stop trying, your going to need to sacrifice some things in life, and you may have to leave your friends, it maybe hard but its worth it.

Best wishes,

Adil

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30 day Metal Fast - Day 2

2009-03-10T11:15:00.001Z

Hey guys,

Day 2 is going awesome, I sat down today and started to do Frank Kern's Core Influence DVD and man it is really deep.

I just sat down and wrote out how my dream life will look like, basically as Frank puts it......

"If you could live this day over and over and over again, and if you changed one thing you would die. What would this day look like, don't think about money, or stuff just everything you want."

So I did, and I read some more of think and grow rich and did a little skateboarding.

So overall today was an awesome day.

By the way I created a new video explaining more on an old post I did....Click here is you want to check it out.....If you do please rate, comment and subscribe please.

Will be posting a few more then just one a day because I think I can give more :).

Best wishes,

Adil

30 day Metal Fast - Day 1 (At Last!) - Results

2009-03-09T23:00:00.001Z

Hey guys,
Just an update of my first day doing the Mental Fast, I went running in the cold, which woke me up and had me ready for the day :D.

Through the next 30 days, I will share my journey with you, sharing the interesting insights I have found and things I have discovered about myself and others through my studies :D.

I spent most of today doing some prospecting, and meeting with people to help organize an event they are doing :D.

Went on from there to studying a few new things and found some cool stuff out while listening to Dr. John F. DeMartini, for those who don't know this man, its the dude next to this writing and he was in the movie, "The Secret".

Well I did learn a few things today from Dr. DeMartini, such as the fact that what ever we put on a pedestal or in the pit we tend to have them influence us. Meaning, say I cut past you on the street, while driving, and that affected you, because you were mad and you swore at me. You put me down but I influenced you.

Or I happened to see a beautiful lady walk by, and I just thought, "Wow she's hot", I have infatuated with her and now put her on a pedestal and thus she has influence over me.

So basically if I am mad or upset with anyone I should put them in my heart, as if I was happy and infatuated by them, place them in my heart so they are my equal and we can work together :).

Best wishes,

Adil

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30 day Metal Fast - Delayed :(

2009-03-08T20:54:00.002Z

Hey guys,

Sorry about this, but my mental fast has been delayed until Monday 9th 2009.
Mainly because I believe starting on a Monday is a good day and also because well, personally today, well I just ended up watching a movie....So not good.

This is just a short blog....

30 day Metal Fast

2009-03-07T18:07:00.002Z

Hey guys and gals,

I was heading into town today, here in, what I wish was sunny, Leicester, UK.

Now before I left this morning to go town I had just got 2 of the 10 Jerry Clark "Magic of Influence" CD's on to my iphone, one of the things it's actually good for haha.

Well anyway while I was listening to CD 2, something Jerry had said, stuck with me and I am gonna take him up on this challenge.

It's called the 30 day mental fast.
It's were I listen to no radio, read no newspapers, watch no TV or hang around and associate with people who say, "This Can't be done" and "The world is in a crisis", etc.

Now don't get me wrong I do most of the challenge anyway but the stuff I don't do is the stuff that will help me out most.
So to those people who know me personally, if I don't see you often or chat often I'm on this fast, ok? So don't think, "Adil is really being mean", I'm not I'm just cleansing my mind :).

Ok so this is what I have to do:

I must:

Read 15 mins a day from an empowering and uplifting book, like think and grow rich, the magic of thinking big, how to win friends and influence people, etc.
Spend at least 1 hour a day in quiet time, reflecting and being grateful and praying.
Listen to personal development MP3's, CD's and watch personal development DVD's.
Exercise more and daily
Eat healthy and drink plenty of water
Associate with people who have similar ambitions and people who have been were I want to go.
Stay in a constant state of joy :).

So there you have it guys.
The reason I am doing this is so I can see its full effect because only doing a little of it has given me joy but let's kick it up a notch. Anyway If you want to do the same to see your results, Shoot me an email either on: adil_amarsi@yahoo.com OR email me on Facebook (As you probably guessed Facebook takes my blogs and puts them as notes XD)

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi

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Goals? Why do I need goals?

2009-03-06T17:47:00.004Z

"Goals? Why Do I need goals!!???"

This is what an angry friend said to me, while I was coaching him.

So I'm going to answer this but to everyone as well,

Ok so we know what a Goal is, to recap - It's working toward something that you want on a dead line.

It can be a dream, could be to score some points for your sport, I don't know, it's your goal.

Now there important because if they weren't we wouldn't be here today... By that I mean, our ancestors had the goal and desire to create offspring and thus we are here.

There are many reasons why we need goals, like the one above, there's one's to make us feel proud of ourselves...
For instance the competition level of things, why do you want to win? Because it makes you feel good. So in effect you make it your primary goal at that time, to win, right?

Another reason could be for happiness - we could make our goal to earn about $1000 this week. That's the goal, so you work to achieve it.

Pretty much saying, OUR GOALS ARE OUR GUIDES!

Celebrities are the prime example of people who lose focus of there goals and screw up.... Let's review and your in there shoes now.

Your dream is to be a famous Actor/Actress, then you work toward it and make it your goal, you work and work toward it and you become an Actor/Actress.... Then you have a goal to earn x amount of money, do x amount of things in x amount of time......When you have all the money, free time and done all the things you want. Your life feels empty so you go drinking, you start to find new thrills and because your famous your seen doing these things and it tarnishes your career.

So you see the celebrity has got a goal, achieved it but didn't set new ones, and for those that don't know, we're either falling forward toward our success or backwards away from it....We can't stay still.

So that is why goals are important....I think I went off topic a few times, but if you know me, you definitely know I have that tendency....Sorry hehe.

Hope this helps,

Best wishes,

Adil

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I appreciate all of you :)

The Zeigarnik Effect

2009-03-05T01:51:00.003Z

IF your anything like me your probably trying to pronounce the darn word.
Ok it's pronounced, ZA-GAR-NIK.
The way it's pronounced isn't really of great importance but what it does is important.

I first heard this from James Grandstaff but it was utilized originally in internet marketing by Mark Joyner. This can be used in Network Marketing.

Here's a little history....I won't bore you to death...Promise :).

The Zeigarnik Effect was discovered by Dr. Bluma Zeigarnik. - History lesson over, told you I wouldn't bore you.

Ok, so know you might be wondering, like myself and many other did, "What the hell is the Zeigarnik effect???"

Well the info behind it is that Bluma found that people remember more when they are distracted and come back to a subject, Tony Robbins speaks about something similar but interupting a pattern. An example of this is a waiter at a restaurant, you've just ordered and this waiter remembers everything you and 5 other people have asked for. Ask him 4 mins later, he has no clue. Reason is because he was focusing on the task of "Remember for now."

IF you flipped it around on yourself. Your going to study something today like that Jim Rohn book, or John C. Maxwell course. You begin, take notes, then have your pattern interrupted and then go back to it, and you do this continually until you finish the course/book.....You will find you remember most of it...........
TO SUM UP.....People remember interrupted or incomplete tasks bettr then completed ones.

They use this in everything, TV show's, Elections etc. Think about your favorite TV show, I love cartoons and one of my favorites is a Japanese Anime called, Dragon Ball Z. Now when I watched DBZ on TV there would a point where the main protagonist is just about to die and the bad guy seems to have the upper hand....Then it either ends or they throw in a commericial. If it ends they do a little preview with a narrator over-voice asking questions like, "Will our main character come out alive or is he toast, tune in next time on Dragon Ball Z".... What do you think I did the next day, that's write tune and watch what happened.

Now how does this work in internet marketing and network marketing...
(I am using an internet marketing approach because it is easier to explain)

Imagine you are on a webpage and the headline reads something like,
"LEARN HOW TO EFFORTLESSLY MANIFEST WEALTH, HEALTH AND HAPPINESS INTO YOUR LIFE, QUICKLY AND SIMPLY"

Then it continues to say about how the person's story of how they discovered it, where they were and were they are now. By the time you have finished reading the sales letter you just have to know...."What is this product and what can it do for me?"

Pretty much the marketer has gone from, giving you a thinking headline, made you read through the page, during which you've started to think about what the hell this product is, then your left on a cliff hanger. After which you've got the feeling of wanting to know.

Now this applies in a lot of area's of life.

A good friend who only uses his Alias in blogs, Magnetik is actually writing something similar but its to do with relationships etc...or something like that. Click here to go and read about that post

Best wishes,

Adil

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The Clearing Effect

2009-03-02T13:23:00.000Z

How many of you have heard of "The Ho'oponopono Process"?

Well I am gonna be honest, I had no clue what this was until about 4 days ago when I was listening to a program by Dr. Joe Vitale.

This process is amazingly amazing to say the least. The process originates from Hawaii.

What this process does is it cleanses you, like removing your metal roadblocks. The theory behind the process is pretty much saying, that we are not only responsible for ourselves but for everyone else.

Let me elaborate before you call me crazy...er :P,
O.k Dr Lin, was were Joe Vitale heard about this process, you see Dr. Lin was working at a mental hospital for the criminally insane. But he never had one on one's with patients, or even any face time, he just walked through there holding ward, checked there profiles in his office then shut the door.

Now he said something to himself, and the divine, which I will share with you shortly.
Anyway he sat there saying these four things to himself. As time went on, these criminally insane people started to be released from prison. These were men who they thought could never get better and they did.

Now this is all true because Dr. Joe Vitale checked this out and had checked with the staff there and everything.

This is the process Dr. Lin used. He said these four statements, in any order you like:

I'm sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you
I love you

Dr. Lin took it upon himself saying he was responsible for these men so cleansing himself would cleanse there souls as well.

Now these four phrases don't seem like much but try it, with what ever it is in your mind that your having trouble with.
Place that problem in your mind, then say the 4 in what ever order you wish, and you will start feeling them and you will soon notice it works.

Let me know your results below :).

Best wishes,

Adil

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Dr Earl Suttle

2009-02-28T22:19:00.004Z

Hey guys,

This is a great call by Dr Earl Suttle.

Who is Earl Suttle?

He is the Chairman and CEO of Leadership Success International, LLC, an international training and consulting company based in Atlanta, GA, that specializes in working with businesses and organizations to increase their profits and productivity through developing their people. He earned his Doctorate in Addiction Studies from International University for Graduate Studies.

As a business consultant and dynamic entertaining keynote professional speaker, Dr. Suttle delivers nearly 100 presentations throughout the year in the United States and South Africa. He is the co-author of three books, with Dr. John Hubbard, Earl's Pearls on Enjoying Excellence, Preparing for and Managing High-Risk Situations in the Lives of College Athletes (An Athlete's Guide) and Preparing For and Managing High-Risk Situations in the Lives of Professional Athletes (A Player's Guide). All books have been receiving rave reviews. He also has produced a number of CDs and DVDs on leadership, professional, and personal development. 'Empowerment through education and enthusiasm' is the mission statement of his company.

He has conducted keynote addresses and seminars for many corporations such as AFLAC Insurance, AT&T, Delta Air Lines, The Coca-Cola Company, American Express, Kimberly-Clark Corporation, United States Postal Service, Kraft Foods, The Hartford Insurance Group, Wachovia Bank, The Atlanta Life Insurance Company, Cobb EMC, Anheuser-Busch Companies, The University of Miami, The University of Georgia, and many more. Dr. Suttle is also a consultant to the National Basketball Association (NBA) and National Football League (NFL).

Now, I found this program amazing because it really helped me out.

Check it out here

Bruce Muzik Interview

2009-02-26T23:10:00.000Z

Hey guys and gals,

Have I got a treat in store for you today!

I got my friend Bruce Muzik to take sometime out of his VERY busy schedule to do an interview. He was so busy he was multi-tasking. See women men can multi-task :P hehe.

I asked Bruce some very personal questions about the Law of Attraction, because though I have posted about it in the past. I still get a lot of people misconceive it.

Now Bruce Is a MASTER Manifester - sounds cool - but it's true, he has inspired many by his story which I will cover shortly and just goes to show what the law of attraction is and how it can work in a positive for you.

Ok so a little about Bruce Muzik. He is a South African. Born and raised in South Africa, he lived through the Apartheid period. Bruce always felt that there was no reason for it so one day after South Africa was no longer in segrigation, he decided to move to a Ghetto in South Africa. The only white man in the entire of the black community. Now he found out very quickly that a new bank had opened, him. People kept coming up and asking for money, and Bruce being the soft natured person he is, kept giving them money, the people started using that money to buy drugs and so on and so forth.

Eventually Bruce had enough of this and started asking people who asked for his money, "I won't give you my money, but would you like me to teach you how you can earn your own money?"

Out of the 300 people he asked.....ONLY 1 took him up on his offer and went on to be a Success in the IT industry.

From there Bruce had a hit single, as a musician, and moved to London, UK. Where He and his wife Adele Currently Reside.

Ok so straight into the interview we go.

Me: Hello Bruce how are you?

Bruce: I am good Adil how are you?

Me: I am very good thank you. Thanks for this interview.

Bruce: No problems, Adil.

Me: Ok so let's get this going Bruce, I have been speaking to a few people about the Law of attraction and they still have no clue what it is about. Can you tell us what the Law of Attraction is because I know you have a different take on it?

Bruce: Of course, well Conventionally the Law of Attraction is perceived, "Thoughts become things" and "We attract what we think about". This isn't false but not a complete truth. People have a look at the Law of Attraction and think it is a mystical force that exists out there, a bit like the Force, Luke Skywalker was talking about in Star Wars haha.
I see it this way, The Law of Attraction is not designed to give you what you want straight away, like when people wish for a ferrari to drop out the sky and into there driveway. But the Law of Attraction gives you opportunities to ACT upon in order for you getting what you want, QUICKER. You see visualization is excellent but that is half the work because its INTERNAL. The person has to use his external side to action.

Me: Wow. That is really true, what you said, because I used to be like that. I used to always think and just visualize, I think I did it for a good 3 months and nothing happened. But I met you around that time through a faculty call at Success University. Ok so I want to give the readers a real proof that it works, because I know it works because I use it myself.
How has the Law of Attraction helped you, recently?

Bruce: Woah, that's a bit tough haha. Wow all the time, erm ok well I will think of a recent event.
I use a Blue Print much like Relaxation for Manifestation except instead of using the VAKGO(Visual, Auditory, Kenisthetic, Gustatory (taste), Olfactory(sound)) method, the Blue print Cd's have my VAKGO on them so its tailored to me. I have been using it on and off for a year, because ever since I was a boy I always wanted to live on an island, live the island lifestyle. Being in the water, windsurfing, being in the warm climate and probably people asking, "Why the hell's he in London?" haha. Don't worry I ask the same question :). What's happened recently, I got invited to spend a month on an island in the Caribbean by my friend Eric. I checked it out, such that it looks like we're, me and my wife, are moving to the Bahama's in the next 6 months. We're starting to attract opportunities, I'm meeting people all over the place who can provide a job for my wife. Ok that is one of the recent ones but this is my favorite one to tell.

I wanted to go Motorbiking across highway 1 in America, and my wife, Adele, she wanted to go to India. So one morning we both decided to use the Relaxation for Manifestation and focus on going to India. I totally forgot about it because I was overwhelmed by the shear amount of work it would take to organise the trip, flights, renting, hotels, travel insurance, Break down recovery, export 2 motorcycles etc. We hadn't shared this idea with anyone mind you. 6 weeks later I am having lunch with a friend in London, and he says to me,
"Hey Bruce, I'm going on a 2 week motorcycle trip to India would you like to come?"
My Jaw dropped, so me, my wife and my friends went to India and ended up joining a bunch of other motor cyclists who were there and they had everything organised.

Me: Ok so you've mentioned Relaxation for Manifestation a couple of times, I know what it is and its value, but just for the readers what is it, what does it do and why would they want to buy it?

Bruce: Relaxation for Manifestation is an audio product designed to program your mind to think in the right way to attract the opportunities to achieve your goals. So consider this, that all your results in life come from your actions, and your actions are determined by your thoughts and for most people they don't control there thoughts. Thoughts just pop into there heads, just randomly popping in to there heads. To change your life's results you need to change your thoughts and you need to know where they come from. They come from, what I call "program's" in your subsconcious mind. How your "programmed" determines how you see the world, how you think, behave, actions you take and results you get. If you know anything about the Law of Attraction or Quantum phsyics, you will know what we think about has an impact on the subatomic world. We can really attract things that are benificial to our lives. If your thinking positively and the right kind of thoughts your going to be thinking wayward and sabotaging all your efforts to get what you want. So the Relaxation for Manifestation is designed to program your mind with a goal and that goal becomes the target of your mind. A bit like a guided missile or a GPS, without programming it, it will never be able to talk to you and get you to were you want to go. So Relaxation for Manifestation makes it really easy to access the Subconscious mind and program it with a goal and you begin to attract miricles into your life. I get weekly mail full of people telling me about how Relaxation for Manifestation has helped them.

Me: Yeah totally true, I remember when we met in Novemeber, I was about 12 days into the program when we met, remember? Well I didn't complete the 21days but what I did get done during those days was just unbelievable. I attracted so much in such a short space of time....I think I need to go back to it haha. But yes taking action is a huge part that I learned from it.

Bruce: Yes well when you take consistent action, it may take time but you will start getting results. Trust me on that one. Your bound to be successful.

Well thank you Bruce.
I have placed links to the Relaxation for Manifestation page, this is for the free gifts in which Bruce is giving away. So take advantage of it all.

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi

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TEAM event

2009-02-23T11:38:00.003Z

Hey guys and gals,

Did you go to the TEAM event yesterday at Stoneleigh Park, Warwickshire, UK?

If not, never fear, I'll be adding some notes I took from there on to my blog to share.

But I will ask you this now, do you want to be a success in Success University or Network marketing in general? If the answer is an unshakable yes then you will wish you were there.

This is just an overview of what happened on the 22nd of Feb 2009!

There was so many amazing points of the day, David Butler shared a tremendous amount of information that really kick-started everything. It got me, as Jan Ruhe would say, FIRED UP!
David has a huge experience in Network Marketing. This man has been through and seen it all.

We had a comedian come on and he was making us laugh quite a bit, It was a relief because it was such a hardcore day!

Then we switched over to Jerry Scriven, who is David's friend and mentor since the start. Jerry gave us some excellent tips on MLM/Network Marketing in general. Teaching us through his vast experience in the industry about why Network Marketing, what is going through our and other people's heads, The big question "Can I do it?", The truth is you can if you do the work.

Straight we went into Feza Sengul's information on how to be successful with Success University, when Feza speaks you have to listen, being in Success Univeristy for 27months, this man has a team of 20,000 members and he is just a good speaker, friend and person to be around.

After Feza gave us the 3 step learning process....yes I have covered this in an earlier post. Click here to view. We had testimonials for several counsellors and directors in Success University, practically all of them were speaking about how it was important to stick close to your support team. And the Praises of our next speaker was amazing. The man I am speaking about is none other then, AJ Lewis.

Now AJ lives in London and is an amazing individual, though I have never actually had the pleasure of working with him. You can tell from his energy he is a man on a mission. AJ just went on about the 6 fundementals it took to get you going a break neck speed. Practically every director that went across stage to speak was singing his praises. I mean you may join Roger Galloway's team or any of the downline, but you can bet your ass AJ is going to call.

The Youngest Director there was Michael Page who is 21 years old. Now Michael said this so true of AJ, if you don't call AJ for a week, and then you do, you can bet he will be asking you very real questions, to make you see your mistakes. Which is what a good coach and mentor does, he show's you them and starts working with you.

As AJ left the stage he left us with a great thought about our attitudes in life. Our attitudes toward something is what makes it either easy or hard for us to succeed.

Moving on from AJ we had the comical mentor, who is serious but a great laugh to. Roger Galloway.
Now Roger was talking to use about how you can make things work in your favor. Just take a lot of action, just make sure you make relationships everywhere you go. He reitterated that was said earlier in the Seminar. You have to put value on what you give, don't just give information to people because they won't value it. Put some value on it.

That was the concluder really, we all can do this so lets go out there and make it happen for whatever it is you do. . . . Just to remind you I will be posting some more of the notes at a later date.

Best wishes,

Adil

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VERY special call with Success University CEO Matt Morris and Kalpesh Patel

2009-02-19T19:02:00.002Z

Hey guys,
Last night (18th Febuary 2009) Success University's CEO Matt Morris interviewed Kalpesh Patel, who is touring Africa, spreading the good word of Personal Development!

Just some quick information, Matt Morris, was a college drop out who failed in Network Marketing for 5 years, this man used to live in a Car and he's 6ft 3!. He turned it all around and has made a 7 figure income in Network Marketing 6 different times before the age of 30.
He single-handedly paid and launched Success University to become the number 1 training and personal development company on the internet!

Kalpesh Patel is an entrepreneur who has loved entreprenrualism since the age of 11. This man has gone forward with his love for personal development and constantly given more then most. Kalpesh joined Success University in January 2007, within the first 16 days he SHATTERED the record for hitting a level called "Executive Director". Prior to him joining Johnny Wimbrey held that record and did it in 12 months. Kalpesh on the other hand did it in 16.....Days!
He has a love for personal development like none other I have seen, and have met him on numerous occassions.

So without any further introductions. Click here to begin the call!

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi

Law of Attraction.....really does this work?....Plus a review

2009-02-16T20:52:00.003Z

Hey guys,

I was listening to Dr Joe Vitale's New training course, called the missing secret.
Now it is an absolutely great training, I am just on CD 2.
So far so good.

Now I wanted to have this as an open blog.
DO you think the law of attraction works?

I want you to give me examples of when it has for you, or taught you something, etc.

By the way in my view it does work because it has helped me a lot and made me realize it ain't as easy as I thought but worth every step.

Now If you are anything like I am, you love information and learning new things and mastering things.

So I want to offer you guys something I bought and it really helped me shape my mind and shape how I think about things.

It's called Relaxation for Manifestation. It's by Bruce Muzik and yes at first I was very skeptical and thought, "Oh NO not another one of these again"....It was on a training call with the MLM company I am with. Now I decided to try it out and Bruce is so generous that he has put up an offer, where it says,
"If you are unhappy with the product, send him an email within 90days and you can keep the product as a thank you gift"

Now it doesn't get better then that....or does it.

Anyway this helped me out so I'll recommend it to anyone who is serious about shaping there minds quickly. And as a bonus I will be giving the first 10 people to get this product a very special gift that will push your mind through its barriers.

Ok so here's what you do.
Click this link
Then go to "Products - Law of attraction MP3"
Click on it then, I want you to order the product.
Remember there is a 90 day 100% money back guarantee.

If you are wondering what it did for me, well it helped me feel more confident of myself and I am currently pushing to get up to the next level.
So stick with it for 21days and see the results.
If you don't u can always tell Bruce.

Best wishes,

Adil

Just a thought

2009-02-15T14:21:00.002Z

Hey guys,

I am sorry for not posting, I was away this weekend on a spiritual retreat, yes I went away on Valentines hehe.

Anyway while I was away, on Friday night, it was about 2am. I was thinking about something I had heard earlier that day from our group leader, It was so wise yet so true, you see he was not that much older then me. He was 23 yrs old. The eldest in our group was 50 and the youngest was 16 years old.

Now this 23 year old named Tariq, had said to us.
"Be kind in all you do because though that kindness may not be seen yet, in time it shall be brought back in greater number".

Now I know this is an ancient truth but it doesn't really click with you, until you have heard it a few times over. Or from another's mouth.

That's something I would love for you guys to ponder over, be kind in all you do and don't do it because you want praise, do it because you are, by default, a good soul.

Best wishes,

Adil

PPC Sucks....

2009-02-12T14:09:00.003Z

Hey guys,

I Originally wrote this on my internet marketing blog but here goes.

I recently was on YouTube and this user had written a lot of negative stuff about PPC and how it robs people and you need lots of money etc.

Now I spoke to him on email and found out he has lost about $300 worth on PPC advertising without generating a single lead. I naturally asked him if he had, at all, modified his ad or his landing page or anything. He said he hadn't thought of that.

Now I will advise ALL people who want to do PPC marketing to get a copy of Pay Per Click Domination. Bug Jim Yaghi, He's over there>>>>>
It's his program but definitely worth doing. Really taught me how to do PPC so easily.

Now I will tell you this though, Read this post by Jim on PPC spy tools click here

Anyway this was just a quick post.

Best wishes,

Adil

Get free ebooks here

The Subconscious mind

2009-02-11T05:41:00.002Z

Hey guys,

I was reading a blog today by a friend of mine.
Click here to read his blog

Now he made an excellent point on his subject but he didn't explain what the subconscious mind is about. So he asked me to write about it. So here we go.

Now what most people now know as FACT is the subconscious mind is MUCH more powerful then the conscious mind.

It control's everything we have, our perceptions, our reality, our heart beat, how we are viewed by ourselves and others. It is everything about us. Now it doesn't have the ability to detect bullshit. So you can lie to it for good or bad.

Best way to imagine your mind is as Earl Nightingale did, your mind is a field of fertile soil, anything you plant in their it will give it back to you in abundance, so if you plant seeds of knowledge on a specific subject, it will give you the expert knowledge you want. But if you plant stupidity and negativity, guess what? Your still going to get positivity, wait sorry, no your going to get negativity. It is important you get this. YOUR MIND ONLY GIVES WHAT YOU PUT IN.

Either you program and condition your mind or its conditioned and programmed for you. Trust me you don't want it programmed for you. Now your subconscious mind can be influenced, I.E subliminal messaging or by using auto-suggestion. You will be given links to get both program's. One is free and the other has to be bought but worth every penny.

So it can't detect a lie, so you can say something like a positive lie to yourself, or affirm a lie to yourself, such as, "I am an awesome public speaker and people are drawn to me like a magnet." This was one that a friend of mine had used and guess what, he's an awesome speaker and people are attracted to him and he is an introvert - meaning shy of people.

Now you can lie to it as many people have, "I can't do xyz because of (insert your shit here)"
Excuse my language but that's what it is, an excuse is just a crap cop-out. They will blame the economy, their health etc. But truth is you are your own person and what u put in will come back out.

Here's the magic touch though, what ever stuff you have said before, like "I have a bad back", or "I am always broke.", You can undo them both and be in great health and great wealth to.

I will give you a few I use myself that work very well. These are for getting your confidence up about meeting new people,

"I am a confident individual who attracts people to him like a magnet."
"I am who I am and people love me for it"

Do you see a running pattern all of them start and end in confident statements, with "I AM" even if I am not there yet, and end in positivity with 0% doubt.

You give it a go.

Best wishes,

Adil

Click here for free ebooks.

To learn auto-suggestion, goal-setting and SOOOO much more for free - Click here
To use subliminal messaging to program your mind, quickly, simply and lazily - Click here

New Success University Card

2009-02-10T19:11:00.000Z

Hey guys,

Just a quick post,

Success University is bringing out a new prepaid card. It looks amazing and the features aren't bad either. If you're a success university student, well done and get this ball rolling. Get your new card as it makes promoting your business SOOOOOOOOOOO much easier.

If you have no clue what Success University is,
Click this link and watch the video :)

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi,

Click here for free stuff

Prosperity is a birthright, right?

2009-02-09T19:57:00.002Z

Hey guys,

Do you believe that statement?
"Prosperity is a birthright".

Well I agree with it, but I believe there is things missing in that statement.

My belief is that prosperity is not only a birthright but a way of life. It's not an easy shift to do, but it is one that is worth more then you can ever know.

The way you make this shift is to decide you want this shift.
It is not an easy thing, but an on going learning process that we live by, YES you will have opposition, yes you will have people in your group of friends, people you once considered very close, some will hurt you. Because of a few reasons, some are jealous, others believe your making a mistake, some actually believe them putting you down is "A good way to keep you in check".

But in actual fact these people are hurting you, your best bet here is to send love to them and communicate to them, easier said then done, I know but it will be worth it.
Some reading this may say, "Send love, are you crazy Adil?"

Well a little bit, yes but anyway, not in this instance, when you send love they will feel it. If they persist being assholes to you then so what, that's them, and people will see it.

So make sure your ready for a battle of peace. Just have peace in knowing you are your own leader and all you can do is really lead yourself. All others that follow you are just learning, so teach them what you can.

Your prosperity is a birthright, but we do not claim it because of the stealer's.
Go for it 100% and don't look back.

All the best,

Adil Amarsi

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P.S If you wish to learn more and work with me, email me :).

Walking on water? Is this guy for real?

2009-02-08T19:53:00.002Z

Hey guys,

I was on youtube and a friend of mine sent me a video of Criss Angel walking on water.

Now I know it's just an illusion but he had so many people dazzled by it, including me. Now what I am getting at here is what he did to hold that crowd in suspense.

Let's review, he met a need they wanted, "To be entertained", he made them certain that they would be entertained.

Second thing he did was he made people uncertain, if he could do it or not.

Third thing he did, he made them significant by them participating in the event.

Need I continue? He met all 6 needs of the people there.

Now imagine if we could make everyone we met feel all these 6 things,
actually to narrow it down and make it easier, what if we made everyone feel loved, connected to us and gave them appreciation and significance. Not Flattery just honest appreciation for who they are?

Would that not benefit us both more so?
I think it would.

Have a fun and awesomely spectacular day/night.

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi,

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Boost your business in 2009!

2009-02-06T19:00:00.002Z

Hey all,

This is just a quick reminder to those of you out there who are looking to grow your business in 2009!

The Special Guest speaker is none other then Mr. Todd Falcone.

Todd will teach you very specific techniques to drive your business through the roof during these troubling times.

click here to listen in

What you will learn:

• Exactly who to target during recessionary times
and why

• To understand CLEARLY what to say and how
to say it in order to easily attract people to
your business

• How to close more business in 2009 by targeting
the RIGHT candidates

A little about Todd Falcone...

He brings over 18 years of in-the-field Direct Sales and network marketing experience to those looking for peak performance in their home based businesses. He is an internationally recognized trainer who focuses his attention on helping individuals produce results and transform their lives for the better.

Todd is also the author and host of several very powerful audio training programs, including: Insider Secrets to Recruiting Professionals, How to Win in the Game of Prospecting, the Cold Market Lead Mastery Course, and The Championship Prospecting Series.

Best wishes,

Adil A

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Which power would you have?

2009-02-04T00:47:00.002Z

Hey all,

I had an interesting conversation with a good buddy of mine,
we were discussing what superpower we would want.

So Let me ask you, What super power would you want and why?

You can only have one though.

Mine was Full control of my mind, as it is the most powerful thing in the world. Plus telekinesis, mind reading, and manipulating energy all come from the mind.

Post your comments below

Adil

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Are you attracting what you want?

2009-02-03T10:00:00.000Z

Hey guys,

Here's something for you to think about,
Are you attracting what you really want or are you attracting a bunch of problems?

If you are attracting what you want then awesome and great news, tell us about how you do it in the comments area.

If your like most of us, then your probably not.

So this brings the question of, "How do I attract what I want?"

I recently posted on here about an interview with Bonnie Bruderer. Check that out first because she gives you some awesome tips.
Now even if you have gone through that and still unsure.
Let me ask you this one simple question, State your biggest fears.

The reason is because our fears are what make us not manifest. They are an underlying cause for our prosperity blockage.
Now you can bitch and moan at me about how its not your fault that your mad at your parents, and how they treated you bad. Not saying what they did was right but look at what it taught you. If it showed you, "Hey I'm Better then this shit" then good that's your lesson.

Now let go of it, stop grudging over it cos its stopping you living your life.

Keep going forward but make sure you forgive yourself, your past, your present, take a damn mirror and look into it and just say, "Screw this, it aint me, this is not my life. Lets go out there and make this life work for me."

Just making that decision and making an action plan = about a 70% boost in success odds in your favor. So definitely worth doing!

Now if you end up doing this, you know forgiving yourself then great, your on your path, If your unsure about what to do in goal setting, get my free goal setting ebook. It's only 7 steps and if you need any help my informations on there.

To your success,

Adil
Click here for your ebook

Bonnie Bruderer

2009-02-02T16:39:00.002Z

Hey guys and gals,

I have a VERY special treat for you all.
I have recently been speaking and befriending a very talented and special woman named Bonnie Bruderer. I managed to talk her into giving us a very special interview.

So I am going to write out some of what was included and give you special people the link to hear an interview with her from Success University's conference call from January 15th 2009.(Found at the bottom of this post).

First of all before we begin, I want to give you some information about Bonnie.

Bonnie Bruderer has studied with Anthony Robbins and has done the fire walk. She is committed to helping the lives of others, she mainly focuses on women but guys we can apply this to.
She has ran a Triathlon before and knows what is needed to keep focused.
She is the founder and CEO of her company, theonecoach.com and her best selling and highly effective product, "Your Best Friend is Calling."

Ok so lets get this started.
This is done mostly interviewer style.

Adil:

What is your advice for the dreamers and positive people while we are in these economic times?

Bonnie:

Focus on your outcome, really focus on it. I had an email from my dad a few weeks ago and he was telling me that I should be focusing on something secure and not do my own thing.
I ended up spending my time at a networking event and I ended up with 2 speaking engagements, some new customers and I did this all in one day. So Keep your mind open to what is possible for you. Because Only YOU know what is possible. So whatever you focus on you will attract.

Adil:

Awesome stuff, so how do you get someone to focus on what they want? Like for instance what if someone said, "I don't know what I want"?

Bonnie:

It all depends on the person, usually most people know what they want. My method of doing so is the magic wand. We find out where they are then, "How would your life be different if you had a magic wand?". What ever they answer, is what they want. We then find what the gap is and then we start working on how we can bridge them over and see what barriers they have up. Because there is always a gap.

Adil:
So say you we have where I am and where I want to go, how will that help me focus?

Bonnie:

Well Adil, think about it this way, if you knew what you wanted, then that would give you something to aim for right? So now you have your focus and working toward it and constantly looking at it will really help you out.

Adil:

What do you mean by "Constantly looking at it"? Like a vision board? Do you mind if you could explain what a vision board is and how they work to people that may not know?

Bonnie:

Sure, of course I don't mind. Yes that is exactly what I meant, a vision board will really help you out. A vision board is basically a poster board filled with things you want. If it's a holiday in Hawaii, like I know you want Adil, you would have that up there. I would advise anyone to spend about 3-15 minutes a day visualizing themselves at this destination. This imprints it in to your mind and makes it more real so it starts to attract the situations towards you that you want in order to make what you want, happen.

Adil:

So visualization, in what sense because some people may think visualization is just seeing it. But it isn't is it?

Bonnie:

No it isn't. Visualization is actually a combination of your 5 senses and that includes seeing it happening. One thing we have to really have to highlight, is you must make a DECISION to make it happen for you. Because if you don't decide then your shooting yourself in the foot because you will be unsure about it. So yes, your 5 senses are: Feeling, Touch, Taste, Smell and Sound. Use your imagination on all of these and it will make it real and do this for 3-15 minutes a day. One other thing as well that is good to mention is taking action on what you want. Set goals and go for them because you will get there if you do. By the way, I recommend you read Adil's ebook, can you give it to them?

Adil:

Yeah great points covered Bonnie, and of course I'll give them the address to pick it up from later on. Ok so we have most of the things covered. If you want to get a full coverage the success university call where Bonnie goes into really detail click here.

And also if you want the free ebook Bonnie was talking about Click here

Hope you learned something.

Adil Amarsi

6 Needs of a Human part 3

2009-01-25T15:28:00.000Z

Hey guys,

This is the last set of the 6 human needs,

before we continue lets recap real quick.

Ok so we have covered need 1 which is certainty, need 2 is uncertainty, need 3 is Significance and need 4 is Connection/love.

Now the following to needs are essential and most important 2.

Need 5 is Contribution - This simply put, means we MUST and NEED to give something to someone in order to feel complete. Contribution can mean anything from just a simple act of giving someone some love, or some time to giving money to charity or giving your time to greater community causes. That's what it mean's in that sense.

The reason is, because when we give to another person something from within us activates a resonating feeling of joy and happiness and makes us want to do more.

Need 6 is Growth - This can be summed up by saying. Growth in the sense of we all will grow up, our minds will develop and so will our bodies. Also growth in the mind by utilizing other peoples works and minds to help improve our own. Through books, CD's, Tapes, DVD's, youtube at times hehe.

The reason is because without growth we can not change what we are doing wrong. Learning new skills such as communication and leadership are essential. This is a growth process.
In my opinion Network marketers go through the highest level of growth simply because our field of work, almost 95% of it is personal development.

Best wishes,
Adil Amarsi
www.dcateaches.com

6 Needs of a Human part 2

2009-01-21T13:43:00.003Z

Hey guys,

Here's needs 3 and 4 of the 6 human needs of a human.

Well I hope you read the first post because they all go together.

Okay so here we go.

Need 3 is - Significance.

We need to be significant, deep down, we all want to be important. We want our life to have meaning and significance. Another definition would be uniqueness, we want people to see why we are unique. Someways we can do this,
negatively is by bringing someone down or by being violent to someone.

These people use a negative profile now if you were using it in a positive manner you might be doing this by learning and knowing a subject then teaching it. Or get a degree in something and yes even spirituality is a form of significance.

Materialistic significance are things like cars, achievements, monetary achievements, etc.

Need 4 is- Connection/Love

WE all need to have a level of connection with someone, that way we feel loved, if not then were connected to God, but we are always wanting that connection. A destructive way of getting Connection or love is by;

doing something for sympathy.
Milking a situation for all its worth
Being sick or injured so people look after you.
Committing a crime or violent act.

Yes they are all connection, imagine Someone put a gun to your head they have just achieved needs 1-4. They are certain you will do what they say, they are uncertain what will happen next, they are significant to you, and they have a connection to you through the barrel of that gun.

But here are some positive connections and loving examples:

Relationships
Spirituality
Friends and family
Joining a team or club.

We will move on to the last two soon enough and remember the next to are also the most important of the 6.

Best wishes,

Adil

www.dcateaches.com

6 Needs of a Human

2009-01-19T22:00:00.002Z

Hey guys,

Do you know the 6 Basic Human needs?

Well I am going to give you each one, 2 at a time and these are according to Anthony Robbins.

Before we begin I want to highlight there are 4 Classes of life and Experience.

1) This is where what you do Feels good, it's good for you, it's good for others around you and it serves the greater good.

This is the ultimate class of feeling that you know you love to be in.

2) Doesn't feel good but is good for you, it is good for others around you and it serves the greater good.
This is where some of us find ourselves at times.

3) Feels good, Not good for you or others around you, and doesn't serve the greater good.

Most of us are here.

4) Doesn't feel good, not good for you or others around you and doesn't serve the greater good.

This is a feeling we sometimes find ourselves in and hate it here.

Ok now fulfilling the 6 needs will help us stay in Class one!

Here we go.

Need one is: Certainty.

We need to be certain of things, we need to avoid pain and gain pleasure, that is the only reason we do things.

For us to be certain of something it gives us a sense of control, because of this we need to have faith that things will work out. It is easy to fret in times of uncertainty but we have to be certain what ever is happen is temporary.

Need #2 is: Uncertainty.

Yes it sounds Paradoxical but it works hand in hand with the first need.
Now you may think, "how do you figure that one?"

Well simple really, if you become certain of everything you become bored, complacent and sometimes sabotage what you have just to be uncertain.

Uncertainty can mean variety as well. There are some people who cheat on there other half because they have become certain of the other half's movment's.

Now how we balance these to out is by being Certain of things in our life but not getting used to it. Do something new daily as this provides room for us to grow.

The Road back home

2009-01-18T19:30:00.002Z

As tempting as it may seem,

When things don't go your way you want to back out and go home when it gets "Dark". But you got to remember its always darkest before dawn.

So how do you overcome this feeling?

You start off by identifying why your not being the best you can be. Then devise a plan with your team to help you out. Stick to this plan, if your feeling low on energy start doing exercise and do it daily, you will find yourself going through the roof with energy.

Now avoid that road back, because, if you are leaning toward it, well your not gonna give 100% to go forward.

Don't stay still as you maybe pushed back, don't fall back as you will lose all you have, only push forward as it is your dreams and birthright that lay ahead.

Best wishes,

Adil

EVENT TIME!!!

2009-01-11T09:24:00.003Z

Hey all,

Just a quick posting of up coming events in January and Feb.

Event: A community building event
Day: Tuesday 13th January 2009
Speaker: Adil Amarsi (me)
Location: African-Caribbean Centre, Leicester, just behind the train station.
Topics covered: Goals, Visualization, Leadership and Communication + workshop
What you can gain: A higher understanding on how you can achieve more as an individual and as a community.
Price: Free
Time: 10am - 4pm

Event: Lead yourself to success
Day: Sunday 18th January 2009
Speaker: Fahad Maniar and Team
Location: Leicester, Grandby Street, Coffee Republic.
Topics covered: Its a surprise ;)
What you can gain: A sound knowledge of what you want in your life and how to get it.
Price: £3
Time: 2:30pm - 4pm

Event: How to effectively set goals
Day: Tuesday 20th January 2009
Speaker: Kalpesh Patel (Yes he is awesome)
Location: Highbury hall, Birmingham, UK.
Topics covered: Goal setting.
What you can gain: A chance to meet one of the few inspired individuals who will show you how to raise your "Game" to the top.
Price: Free
Time: 6:30pm start

Event: Team Internet Marketing training
Day: Sunday 1st Febuary 2009
Speaker: The TEAM.
Location: TBC
Topics covered: Internet Marketing among others.
What you can gain: Meeting the Team and learning how to use the internet to weave your businesses together and autopilot
Price: TBC
Time: TBC

Event: TEAM EVENT
Day: Sunday 22nd Febuary 2009
Speaker: TBC
Location: TBC
Topics covered: TBC
What you can gain: A Wide range of knowledge of how you can be a better you. Like most events this is about value not just Rah Rah hype.
Price: TBC
Time: TBC

The Matrix

2009-01-09T21:23:00.004Z

Hey guys,

I was watching the Matrix last night and I couldn't help but notice how true it was to life.
I know for a fact many network marketers, and just regular people know what I mean.

For those who don't know what I mean, The Matrix is a movie that says the entire world that we live in is a dream, a way to keep us enslaved and controlled.
The freed minds fight the various agents to free the minds of others to live in a free world that is, in the movie a war torn planet earth.

Now how this is true to life is, we are enslaved by the systems, This will be controversial but its ok because I want this to be a little controversial. We are enslaved by a system that teaches us to be dis-empowered and not completely empowered. We are born successful with a right to earn as much as we want, do all the good we want and have a lot of fun. But that isn't the case for many people because of "Circumstance". Well here's the thing a circumstance doesn't make anyone but really just reveals them to the world, meaning what ever is going in their inner world, well when the time comes everyone will see. If it's successful and happy, guess what its gonna be successful and happy, if its mean and abnoxious then thats what will come out.

The way to escape the system that we are born in to is to simply find those few individuals out there in the world who have done so, look for the entrepreneurs, network marketers, leaders, community leaders. Anyone who is doing something positive to change the world and still having a lot of friends and fun doing it.

When you find them just ask for help and it will be given, its so simple yet only 5% of people use it. If your looking for a way out of this system which has been told to us as the "rat race" then contact me or anyone you know who is "free" that you know.

Best wishes,

Adil

Being Consistent

2009-01-07T18:25:00.003Z

Have you ever wondered what the top leaders do in your company?

There are many but today I will cover just the one that seems to be at the heart of them all.

Being consistent is one of the biggest keys I can ever share with you.

Did you know most of us will either start out great or get great during our career then we will disappear and then ask, "wheres our team?"

I know because I did this myself. BIG MISTAKE.

You want to be as consistent as possible but consistent with a direction, don't just go in charging, go in charging with a place you wanna go.

I mean its like the difference between traveling from one city to another with a map and without one.
I think the one with a map is easier, don't you?

Well you might think, "how do we stay consistent" or "How do we become consistent"
It's all about taking the first step and repeating it daily, time after time after time. Take one small step, start by speaking to two people you don't know daily, this really helps with confidence, just start by saying hello, don't speak business just regular everyday small talk.

Take care and keep going to the top.

Adil Amarsi

Live from the appleshop

2009-01-05T16:02:00.001Z

Hey guys just a quick post i got a few prospects in the apple shop writing this blog its that easy!!!

Best wishes

Adil

What is Love?

2009-01-04T19:14:00.002Z

What is love?

Some definitions now a days explain love as a compassionate bond between two people.

Others define love as a respect for another as you would respect and love yourself.

Some people don't even have an opinion of love.

I will assure you love is some of these but not a real definition of it, because when people think love they think about cute little things, pony's, perfection, happiness and no negativity what-so-ever.

Not saying this is bad, this is a good thing shows the person has a healthy outlook on love, but love isn't all rainbows and sunshine, its a combination of the good and the bad. The bad being things like, arguments, opposite points of view, anger, etc.

These things combined create love because, if you can imagine, even the best couple had times when they fought and got to the end. I am sure you have friends or know people who seemed PERFECT together but they broke up? One of them cheated or something came up, or after a short argument he/she left the other, etc,etc.

The reason for this is because our creator wanted nothing more then us to enjoy life but if something that we enjoy happens consistently we start to lose variety, which is one of our 6 human needs (will cover this in a later blog posting). So for us to experience challenge its just to make us stronger, to test us and to find out if we really love someone. The reason for sadness and pain is just to enhance the greatness of love. Without gravity our bones would not become strong, same is with love, without pain we can not be more loving then before.

In a nutshell, all love really is, is an emotion that dominates the universe and all pain is, is our teacher and examiner. Pass the exam and become one with unconditional love and you will notice how easily everything in your life flows.

Best wishes,

Adil

How to lose that xmas excess

2009-01-04T15:28:00.003Z

Hey guys,

Did you know most people gain 5lbs of weight just over xmas???

Then you get the January joiners, join a gym then bang they never get past January.

Well I want to share with you a few easy ways of how to lose the fat, keep the muscle and feel great.

Step 1: Start eating less sugar, I need to do this myself but honestly less sugar means more vitality. I am not saying go on a very small amount of sugar, I mean go down a quarter or half the amount of sugar you consume usually.

Step 2: Go walking in the morning's. your doing two things here, 1, your creating an atmosphere of peace and its the perfect way to start a day and 2, your metabolism is started so you will burn off that fat.

Step 3: Create a food shift plan, instead of dieting just start simple by eating an apple instead of a chocolate bar or water over a soda or beer.

These are just 3 simple ways to save your body and get it back in shape. A little extra tip to those who want 6-pack abs, go running. Thats it go running and do sit ups.

Best wishes

Adil Amarsi

The Best Thing about being a Network Marketer

2009-01-03T10:51:00.002Z

Hey all,

Before we go into what I think the best thing about being a network market is,
I have a question for you,

Would it satisfy your needs, if you were at home feeling ill but made £100/$200 worth of money?

I know what my answer is, so please leave yours in the comment box below.

Now one of the reasons I asked that question because I myself am feeling a little under the weather. Here's the thing though I do not want it to sound like I am complaining about it because even though I am not well I can still do my work from my bed, yes I am writing this blog while in my Pjs and with a box of tissues and a nice cup of lemsip lol!

Anyway one of the best things about being a network marketer for me is the ability to help others. Also getting paid for work you've done once, residual, so even if I'm sick as a puppy dog, I can still do a few hours of work just speaking to people. With this I can help my team leaders and I can help discover more team leaders.

What I want you to do right now on this very instant is click on this link here and sign up to receive your free goodies.

Then answer the question above.

Best wishes,

Adil

Become Selfish

2009-01-02T19:17:00.003Z

Hey all,

Are you selfish?

If the answer is not yes then you have a problem.

Now your probably wondering, "What's this idiot babbling about??".
Let me explain myself, if you are NOT selfish then you need to start getting selfish.
I don't mean be mean, not sharing and just down right annoying.

Start caring for yourself first! IF your being hurt by someone you are serving, tell them you need to take some time off, serve you before others. "I" is always before "U" and this is very important.

When you become selfish to yourself, give yourself time to heal wounds, to move on from the past, to change your thought processes for life, you automatically gain a new standard of living so to say. You treat people better, you take responsibility for your actions and have lots of fun doing so.

You might wonder, "How can being selfish help me treat people better?"
Well permit me to answer with this analogy,
The scenario is your on an airplane with your child. Now even here the flight video tells you to be selfish, when??

When the video comes on saying, "In case of a sudden landing, please put your oxygen mask on first then your child's."

If you can take care of yourself then you can take care of others.

One of the biggest paradox's in life is this: "In order to help yourself, you must help others. BUT to help others, you must be able to help yourself."

(Paradox means, commercially, something that contradicts itself. But what it also means is something that seems contradictory but in actual fact it works hand in hand.)

In this case to help yourself is first but to see the change help another then help yourself again then help another. So you build on your strength to help.

BE SELFISH!!! but be grateful and help others.

Best wishes,

Adil

Welcome to 2009!!

2009-01-01T18:05:00.002Z

Hey all,

Just a quick welcome to 2009!

Hope everyone had fun last night and you are all ready for the awesomeness of 2009!!!!!!

Have fun but this year take advantage of my offers hehe, there only gonna get better!

Please send me all your goals, in the form of 3 personal,financial and any other goals you wish to achieve. If you let me I will coach you to your success.

Best wishes,

Adil

Happy NEW YEAR!!! 2009!

2008-12-31T00:01:00.002Z

Hey all,

Happy NEW YEAR, hope you make 2009 a super success.

The best advice I can give for 2009 is make yourself be positive, check out bottom of this post for more info.
Keep yourself going because these hard times are just opportunities for you.

Best wishes,
Adil

www.adil-amarsi.com/success - the number 1 personal development and training portal on the planet.

What do you think?

2008-12-30T02:08:00.002Z

Hey all,
I was in bed thinking and I came up with this analogy, please comment and let me know what you think.

"You must become the observer of life because when you attach emotion to life you become part of it and you stop the flow of life.
Imagine you are a fisher-person and your life is a river, it is full of fish.....the fish is another analogy for the people, problems and blessings in life.... now fishing using a fishing rod is more effective then actually jumping into the river to try and catch the fish.
Meaning the fishing Rod you wait patiently and get what you choose, rather then jumping in and scaring the fish away. So it is better to sit and wait then to chase"

Thanks,
Comment please

Best wishes
Adil A
www.adil-amarsi.com/success

Losing a bad habit

2008-12-29T18:44:00.003Z

Hey all,

Theres a book recommendation at the end of this post so read through

I totally understand that losing or even trying to lose a bad habit is so hard, but trust me it is worth it.

I can say this because I recently let go of a bad habit and replaced it with a good habit.

I will not say what it was but I will tell you the method of how I did it.

I can't take any credit because I learned this technique after hearing Dr. Wayne Dyer say it.
So here it is............

If you want to get rid of anything negative in your life. Then simply pray, or just say, "I hand this bad habit to God" or replace "God" with what you believe.

This way your letting it go and letting that higher power, for me its God, take charge of it.

Best wishes,

Adil

www.adil-amarsi.com/success

The book to get is a classic, "The Greatest Salesman in the World" - by Og Mandino

Reconnection to yourself

2008-12-28T22:36:00.002Z

Hey guys,
I got back today from a little get away,
Now I must admit there were other things I wanted to be doing but I didn't, and I am glad because I learned a lot.

Like did you know that your spiritual self is the higher you and connecting to it gives you a more relaxed body and state of flow?

I didn't until last week. It was amazing I felt so alive and wanted to do so much and now I am back I will.

My main point being, Connect to your higher self again because when you do, then that guides you and you become whole again, which means....... you are now in a state of flow and things you want to manifest just manifest.

Best wishes,
Adil

www.adil-amarsi.com/success

Finding thyself

2008-12-23T23:37:00.002Z

This is just a quick post.....

Did you know before you can find anyone to work with, relationships, business, etc...
You must first Find yourself and know yourself????

Because of this finding personally, I won't be posting until December 29th 2008.

So before I leave I want to give you all something special to think about.
Enjoy your holiday seasons, eat hearty, enjoy blissfully, relax peacefully and just have fun.
Think though of 2009 and the success that awaits you.
Once you have thought of this success, contact me so we can work with one another.

All the best for 2009,

Adil A. Amarsi

www.adil-amarsi.com/success

Quick guide to personality types

2008-12-23T01:15:00.002Z

Hey all this is just a quick guide to personality types.

There are 4 types, these are usually described as the DISC system or the color system. I'll use both in this quick guide.

Ok so we will highlight how to find what personality you predominately are and also find out the pro's and con's of each.

To find out the personality type draw a square, then divide the in side of the square in to four quadrants. Top left place in D or Red, Top right its either I or Blue, Bottom Right is either S or Yellow, and lastly Bottom left is either C or Green.
Now to know which you are, at the bottom of the vertical line write in "Reserved" and at the top write in "Outgoing" now on the left side of the horizontal line write in "Task" and on the right, write in "People".

Now ask yourself these to questions, are you more out going or more reserved?
and are you more task based or more people based?
When you answer these you will know where you belong.

Now a quick strengths and weakness view of the personality types.

D or Red type:
Strengths:

Achievement Driven
Decisive
Takes Charge
Persistent
Competitive
Efficient
Loves Challenges
Goal orientated
Loves to meet people, but works before fun.

Weakness:

Impatient
Hard headed
Demanding
Impulsive
Poor listener

Now weaknesses can be worked on through personal development.

I or Blue:

Strengths:

Enthusiastic
Optimistic
Good communicator
Emotional and passionate
Motivational and inspirational
Outgoing
Personal
Dramatic
Fun-loving

Weaknesses:

Unrealistic
Not detail-oriented
Disorganized
Impulsive
Listen to feelings above logic
Reactive
Can be too talkative
Excitable
Avoid drudge work

S or Yellow:
Strengths:

Patient
Easygoing
Team player
Stable
Empathetic
Compassionate
Sensitive to feelings of others
Tremendously loyal
Puts people above projects
Dependable
Reliable
Supportive
Agreeable

Weaknesses:

Indecisive
Over accommodating
May sacrifice results for the sake of harmony
Slow to initiate
Avoids confrontation even when needed
Tends to hold grudges
Fears change
Ignores or sacrifices own needs

C or Green types:

Strengths:

Accurate
Analytical
Detail-oriented
Thorough
Industrious
Compassionate
Orderly
Methodical and exhaustive
High standards
Intuitive
Controlled

Weaknesses:

Too hard on self
Too critical of others
Perfectionistic
Overly cautious
Won't make decisions without all the facts
Too picky
Overly sensitive

So study these, don't beat yourself up, because you can always raise your weaknesses up as far as you can :).

Best wishes,

Adil Amarsi.

www.adil-amarsi.com/success

Rest, Relaxation, Rejuvination and Revolution

2008-12-20T01:56:00.002Z

Hey all,

This is a simple and short topic really.
More of a statement really, you must learn how to relax, this little "simple" task took me years to find how to do. I managed it at last, the thing is when your tense, and always reacting and never letting your guard down, well you won't ever be able to succeed at anything. Let me elaborate the reason you won't succeed is because your mind is focusing the wrong way or place and thus your not allowing it to give you proper idea's.

Dr. Wayne Dyer once said, "Prayer is you speaking to God, so Intuition is God speaking to you",
This statement sums up really what I mean by relax, when you relax your mind and intuition works so much clearer.

I suggest relaxing 30 mins a day, all alone in a quite area, envisioning how you want life to be then just let your mind and body relax. Rejuvenate yourself by taking a walk in nature or working out or something to get your body moving again, all while confirming to yourself how much you love yourself, not conceit but healthy self-esteem.
E.G. "I love myself, everyone around me and They love me back" - that's self-esteem building.
Conceit is more towards, "Everybody loves me because I am so beautiful, hot, great in bed, etc" you fill in that negative blank and it's conceit.

Create a Revolution in the one place in the entire world where it matters most..... The state that is known as YOU!!!!!!! That is your revolution and take yourself to the next level do something you wouldn't do (POSITIVELY that is).

Have fun with this.

Best wishes,

Adil A

www.adil-amarsi.com

One Call Can Change It All

2008-12-18T14:21:00.002Z

Hey guys and gals,

I don't know if you have ever heard that phrase before? I certainly did but I never actually grasped what it was about until today.

You see lately I have been growing personally more so but still was getting a few challenges coming up ahead of me. Now yesterday I attended a seminar with Kalpesh Patel speaking. What did happen afterwards, today in fact, was I called him to ask for some guidance. Because of this simple act of calling him and just getting things straight and clear, it changed something.

Now let me elaborate, it changed everything in the sence of, before I couldn't meet people and speak about the business. But now I feel it a must and I will go. You see the things we spoke about is simply, how do you get off your ass and take action?. The answer is and was so simple yet I ignored it. Do you want to know the answer to?

Ok here it is, the answer is and always will be, to take action, DO IT!
Just flat out go for it and it doesn't matter if you fall, if you fal you will get up and start running again.

For any information, comments or help please leave a comment.

Best wishes,

Adil

www.adil-amarsi.com/success

Last meeting of 2008

2008-12-18T04:35:00.003Z

Hey all,

I got home from London a few hours ago from the last training given by Kalpesh Patel this year.

Now All I can say is wow!!! and go on and on about how amazing it was, but I don't want to bore you with details.

Oh what? You want to know?
Ok I guess I'll give you a few notes I made.

Well this is the most important part that every leader in Success University and in any industry understands,

"PERSISTENCE IS VITAL AND KEY!!"

Basically not giving up is the key to your success, but not giving up and taking massive action as well will get you that success.

Another point highlighted very much was how to talk to people, because if we can not communicate well then how would we be able to do any business or any talking?

Build your business list is an important vital part of your growth, so get to it.

I'm going to hold the little more gems that were shared for those who are in our team :).

Best wishes,

Adil

Only 7 Spots Left

2008-12-16T11:36:00.003Z

Hey All,

I only have 7 spots left on my team, what that entails is whoever signs up in my team, they will not only get my full 100% undivided attention and help but they will also get my insider secrets and they will get a lot of mentoring from me.

There is an unadvertised bonus people will get for joining up before December 26th 2008.

Best wishes,

Adil A

The link is www.adil-amarsi.com/success

The Importantce of I

2008-12-15T22:26:00.002Z

Hey all,

I was sitting and pondering again and it struck me on why so many relationships fail, why so many people feel like failures and why so many of us are conditioned for it before we even leave our teens.

Then it hit me, I remembered something I had read in a book once, the Quote was,

"You can never say 'I love you' until you can say 'I", I cant remember the authors name.

Now the reason I bring this up is because it very closely linked with failure.

You see we are conditioned not to be selfish in this world, which I personally think is wrong and agree with many authors. Let me justify this, If you can not look after, love, be happy with or enjoy yourself how do you expect to do that for others or have others do that with or for you?

It is a paradox really because, you can not help others without helping yourself but you must help others in order to help yourself. To me this means just knowing yourself first before helping others, because helping others brings more pieces of the jigsaw that is life.

So how do we combat this, well first of all start living for yourself, enjoy your life as it is a gift from God, The higher power, The universe, what ever you call it. In doing so you start to believe and help yourself.

If you really want to learn how to help yourself and teach yourself freedom, success, growth and overall happiness. Contact me personally at support@adil-amarsi.com

Also visit www.adil-amarsi.com/success

The 3 Step Learning

2008-12-15T18:07:00.003Z

There is something I came across that I wrote a while back.

Most people wonder, "How do I quickly make an impact in my company?"

Here's the answer, its a simple 3 step process,

Step one: Learn.

Now this applies to anything you do, and any company to.
Learn the product, use the product, become your own product. This is perfectly the first step because once you are passionate about the product, people will see it in you.

Step two: Share.

Coming from a Network Marketing point of view, share it, don't sell it because that doesn't work.
Share your product, lend it to people, let them see the good in you. If your product is Personal Development then let them see the change in you.

Step three: Support.

This is the most important part, if you have enrolled a new student in your MLM or Team. Support them, share with them the great things you know. In turn Teach them this 3 step process.

Adil A

www.adil-amarsi.com

Quick Start

2008-12-14T18:07:00.002Z

Today we were at a small training session conducted by Fahad Maniar, it was really good, because it covered all the points that needed to be covered.

We covered the basic start up process such as how to invite people to come see what we do and also we learned how to use our support systems which will help us build and help our teams.

I reckon that it will work online or offline given people pitch in to do their work as well.

Best wishes,

Adil A
www.adil-amarsi.com